Win Back Ex Husband Wife Boyfriend Girlfriend - Simply and Quickly

Is this what you really want? You can win back ex girlfriends, boyfriends, husbands, wives, whatever it is you lost. All you need is to understand a few psychological phenomena. There are certain things you can do and say, that make it nearly impossible for someone you have a connection with to withstand.

First let's discuss your relationship. If you were only together for 6 months or less, they probably are simply not interested.. Let it go, and find someone else. If you had longer than 6 months together, you can win back an ex with a well defined plan of action.

Here is an important point, your ex does not want to be alone. People are pack animals, and nature dictates they find a mate. If they have time invested with you, it is not too late. Life is full of paradoxes, and here is a big one. If you want to win back an ex, you have to pretend you do not want them.

Here is the first step, call your ex and agree with the break up, tell them it was a good idea and for the best. Then do not go further, do not elaborate, do not explain, and whatever you do, do not tell them you want to be friends. They must believe it is totally over in your eyes.

After you do this, make no contact for three to four weeks. No email, texting, asking their friends about them, comments on MySpace,nothing. That means none. They will miss you the most at about three weeks. This is when they are the most vulnerable. If they call you, fine, but do not make first contact for three to four weeks (maybe a couple weeks longer if you behaved badly when you first broke up).

Now call them and invite them for an innocent rendezvous, like coffee or lunch. Keep it innocent with a 30 minute time limit. No dinner, movie, party, etc. When you meet keep it light. Act like you are meeting an old friend, because you are. With your history together, you know how to make your ex laugh, use that. After three weeks, your ex will have selective memory, and will have forgotten most of your faults and will only remember the good things about you.

Use this and bring up only pleasant memories. This is important. You know your ex better than you think, pay attention to HOW they talk, notice the speed, tone and inflection they use. Do they use picture words, sound words, or feeling words? (Like I see (picture) what you're saying. I hear (sound) what you're saying. What your saying feels good (feeling).) Use these same kinds of words back to them in the same pitch, tone, and tempo that they do.

Pretend you are a mirror to their body language. If they have their arms crossed, cross yours. If they lean to one side, do the same. Be a little subtle and don't make it obvious, and they will never catch on. Watch their chest see how fast they are breathing, then breath at the same rate. After a couple minutes of pacing them, it is time to test and lead. Touch your napkin, and see if they touch theirs. Once they follow your lead, you have built enough rapport and trust to get them slowly back into your life, congratulations.

Take it slow and learn more about human nature, you only have three weeks to learn everything you need to know. Develop a plan and learn all the secret psychological tricks of the trade.

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