Play With Your Kids

Sometimes we all have to splurge a bit. Those that truly manage their finances prepare for this moment. For example, I put a bit of money back each month in a "no guilt" fund. This money has no purpose, but I can blow it any way I like. It is my reward for managing our money wisely and living frugally.

As they say, we all suffer from the follies of youth at one time or another. But then, we only have one life. This life is going to run for around 50-80 years unless you get run by a speeding car or you contract some kind of dangerous disease.

• Change of location. If you are tired of walking on your treadmill, try going outside for a change. This is a great way to change your outlook.
• Make exercise fun. Find something that you enjoy doing. Physical activity does not have to equal hours at the gym! You can burn some calories while doing all kinds of fun things, such as: backpacking, biking, kayaking, and gardening.

We feel like failures when we don't see progress. Before having children, we are used to measuring our progress daily. There is a sense of satisfaction in seeing a spotless kitchen, checking off a to-do list at work, or finishing a major school project. When we can accomplish something measurable, we don't mind the hard work that it took. My first official job after college was teaching computer software courses to adults. I often would spend one day prepping for the class and teach it the next day. It was a lot of pressure, but it was so rewarding. I was teaching each of these people how to use their computers more efficiently to accomplish their work.

After a while, you'll either have a sleepy child, or an awake, alert child.

When babies and children are in the "awake-alert" state, they're most open to learning new information. So, in a way, vestibular stimulation helps the brain decide whether it's ready for more learning, or needs sleep to help process what's already been learned.

Start looking at the costs of things, not just the appearances. You can either see that nice Lexus, or you can see the really large car payment, insurance costs and worry over door dings. Figure out how much it would be worth when you finally pay it off. How much money would you lose by buying that car? How far would that money have gotten you if you put it somewhere else? Now look at everything this way. Don't just look it, look at the costs associated with it.

Renew your spirit regularly. Have time off for yourself. You need to recharge your creative energies. If you do not renew your spirit, you will suffer from stress and eventually from burnout.

As difficult as it is sometimes, we have to remember this season will not last forever. Once we understand it for what it is-a short season-we can begin to enjoy mothering more.

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