The findings of this study could provide some better options for prenatal care that include different types of exercise plans based on the patient’s lifestyle, needs and abilities. For women with physical or health issues that might prevent an active exercise plan, stretching may be a better option for reducing the risk of preeclampsia.

While your health care provider can give you personal exercise guidelines based on your medical history, here are some stretching exercises from WebMD that might prove beneficial in not only reducing the risk for preeclampsia but also stress during pregnancy:

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Add those travel costs to the money required for a maid of honor or bridesmaids to spend for a dress, shoes, accessories, hair and make-up, hosting bridal showers, bachelorette parties and buying gifts for their friend-it makes losing a friend a more viable option than losing their entire life savings. According to leading wedding website theknot.com, it can easily cost a woman $1,000 and more for the honor of serving as maid of honor or bridesmaid, and there is a limit to what many can reasonably afford. What's a woman to do? CNN.com recently provided some excellent suggestions for potential maids of honor, bridesmaids and brides:

• Brides, detail your expectations for your attendants early so they'll know exactly what you expect of them. They may have some serious soul-searching to do.



• Brides, please be sensitive to your friends' finances. You don't have to choose outrageously expensive attendant's dresses, nor must you have an over-the-top bridal shower, a destination bachelorette party or a Jack-and-Jill party. Talk with them. Be willing to compromise and explore other ideas.



• Maids of honor and bridesmaids, if your bride-to-be friend is expecting everything mentioned in the previous tip and your pocketbook can't handle it, talk to her and be honest about your financial situation. If she's truly a friend she'll back off on her expectations, offer to help pay for the big parties she wants or free you from your obligation as her attendant.



• Share the celebration expenses. Most maids of honor believe the obligation of throwing the bridal shower and bachelorette parties is theirs, though that's not necessarily true anymore. Divide the costs of the events among all the bride's attendants.



• Maids, don't forget. It's also OK to say no. Just do it early.

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Taking Note of the Trends

People are waiting longer to get married, with the median age for first-time marriage for men at 27, and it's 25 for women. By that time, both individuals have outfitted their own homes and should have almost everything they want and need. When they move in together, they have twice as much stuff-and wedding gifts just give them more of the same. For parents-to-be, the alternative registry lets them ask for help in adjusting to the rigors of parenthood after the baby is born. Last, but in no way least, is the continuing shift toward eco-friendly living. AlternativeGiftRegistry.org is an online gift to the present and the future.

How It Works

The registry encourages and legitimizes "asking for help from friends, sharing time together, reusing second-hand items and giving environmentally sound presents as tasteful, thoughtful options." You simply go online, sign up, and create your registry. You'll have the freedom to add personalized requests, links to desired products and photos, and the Web site also gives "Green Celebration Tips" with ideas and resources for going green.

Alternative Wedding Gift Ideas

Sample wedding registries on the site offer some great ideas to go along with your own:

• Recipe cards-your favorite crock-pot and easy-to-make recipes
  
• Cleaning 911-two or three experts "we can email during the first year for tips on little emergencies (like when I spill red wine all over our brand-new tablecloth.")
  
• A weekend in the city at a "green" hotel
  
• A homemade wedding cake

Alternative Baby Gift Ideas

What new parents wouldn't love to ask for:

• Dinners-choose an evening in the weeks after the baby is born to "bring dinner to our house and/or provide meal-size food portions we can keep in the freezer and pull out as needed."
  
• Babysitting-people with baby-friendly homes who would be willing to take their newborn for a few hours one evening so the parents can straighten the house, relax or take in a movie
  
• Cleaning service-three months of a weekly cleaning service
  
• Used clothes-lightly used baby clothes in all sizes
  
• Eco-friendly toys

What's in it for the Gift-Giver?

How about giving something the recipients really want and need? Even if it doesn't cost a penny, you know it's valued as much, if not more, than any other gift. There's also the satisfaction that goes with knowing you've done some good for the planet. What more could anyone ask?

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Toddler fears are valid fears

Even though your child's fears may seem like nothing to you, they definitely are something to him. Don't dismiss it. Deal with it. Trying to convince your child that there's no reason to be afraid does not work. The fact is, he is afraid, whether there's a justifiable reason or not. Look for ways to diffuse the fear. Turn the lights on and let him see that the "person" sitting in the chair was actually only his favorite teddy. Sometimes a logical reason is all that's needed to explain the fear away. Let him talk about it, even if it seems like he's obsessing about it. It's his way of working through it.

Use a cuddly comforter

A favorite blanket or stuffed animal can provide a reassuring source of comfort to help soothe your child's fears. Include a "cuddly comforter" in the night-time routine as you tuck your child into bed.

Light dispels darkness

A night light is probably the best defense against night fears. A twinkling light or lamp will give enough light to keep "shadowy" objects from appearing.

Identify the cause

Children may be afraid of the dark for a variety of reasons. Identifying the cause may help uncover the cure. If the child is afraid that an intruder will come into the home at night, discuss the security measures you have in place. If she thinks things magically appear in the dark, have her play a game of peek-a-boo under a blanket. Moving from dark to light without the appearance of the boogie man might help. It may even be a fear induced by anxiety. Sometimes an upcoming test or project might bring night fears. Discussing the upcoming situation and addressing concerns can dispel the fears.

Get the upper hand

Sometimes fears can make children feel powerless and vulnerable, as things appear to be beyond their control. Children can take back some of that power by developing strategies that help them feel safe. With their input, identify ways to counteract the fear, such as keeping a flash light in the room, sleeping with the light on, having a faithful friend (their favorite teddy bear) stand guard, or even creating "Monster Mist" (a bottle of water to spray on "intruders.") Try to incorporate things your child feels will make him feel safe, but avoid doing things that will inadvertently suggest that those scary things actually do exist.

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The truth is that baby showers don't take as much planning or baby shower idea brainstorming as many people expect. There's lots of details to get right, to be honest, just as if you were planning any other formal or even informal event.

But taking things one step at a time is a great way to keep on top of all those details, while allowing you time to enjoy your life as well.

10. Choose a hostess.

The hostess should be someone trustworthy enough with all the details. According to most rules of baby shower etiquette, the baby shower planning should be handled by someone outside the immediate family. This prevents the appearance that the family is trying to get free baby supplies by inviting friends and relatives to buy them gifts.

There's no reason the baby shower can't have a host, either. For that matter, showers can also be co-ed if the mother to be has no objections.

9. Time your event right.

The timing presents a critical challenge to a successful baby shower. Traditionally, the shower takes place in the third trimester of pregnancy, but it's also okay to wait until after the child is born.

Try to stage the baby shower on the weekend, as a Saturday luncheon or dinner. You'll want to accommodate as many of your guests' schedules as you can. The mother to be will also have many other things to take care of, as well.

8. Get the right space for the baby shower.

With your date set, you can start looking for a place. Depending on the level of formality you and the mother to be choose, you can hold the event at a restaurant, bistro, café, or even in the comfort of your own home.

Remember to keep the decorations in sync with the venue you choose, and to complement the décor with the right baby shower favors and games. The more you coordinate, the more prevalent your motif will become.

7. Even the food and drinks should fit the baby shower idea.

The menu served at the baby shower doesn't have to be elaborate and it doesn't have to be gourmet cuisine, but remember to take care of your guests. If you hold the event in midday, simply serving a light lunch or appetizers is sufficient. An evening event requires a fuller meal.

6. Use baby shower favors to keep the theme foremost in the guests' minds.

Baby shower favors can also complement your food and drinks. For example, giving guests a kitchen timer is both a useful gift but also symbolizes the anticipation that's such a part of the baby shower celebration. The favor will remind the guests of the shower's good time long after they've returned home.

More steps, baby shower ideas and planning tips can be found in part two of this article.

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You've probably heard it before, "Marriage takes work!" But people don't tell you that it's more than just being patient with him when he leaves that one I-didn't-want-to-take-down-another-jar corner of jelly in the jar or that fact that he prefers his toilet paper roll over instead of under. It's the adjustment that you make when you take off the fairy-tale glasses and see your marriage in the light of forever-hood. Hopefully, these tips will help you in your new life as husband and wife.

After The Toast Comes The Test!


It usually doesn't dawn on you while you are toasting champagne glasses after the wedding that forever can be a really long time, and your marriage must stand the test of time. Sure, there will be a day when you look over at your not-so-new hubby and say, "Is this what I signed up for?" You've realized that the honeymoon is over. But that is when you dig deep and push forward determined to recognize the joys that show up right in the middle of the everyday stuff. Remember, marriage is not a destination, but a journey of commitment filled with a little good and a little bad that will balance out over time.

Dispel the Never-Go-To-Bed-Angry Theory


Let's face it! While that old adage is true most of the time, there will be times when an issue just can't be resolved in a day. You might just go to bed angry, disappointed or upset a time or two, but always go to be with love. Remember, just because you may not like what a person did, that doesn't mean you don't still love them. Besides, discussing something when you are boiling mad just because it is bedtime might cause you to say something you'll regret. Going to sleep after a brief kiss or "I love you" despite what has happened can speak volumes about your unwavering love. Try to calm down, focus on the love and work it out after you've had some time to think it through. (But don't take too long. You don't want things to fester.)

Welcome to the Gray Area


A lot of us tend to see things in black and white. Everything is either cut and dry or right and wrong. However, those who have lived a lifetime loving someone else will tell you that things are not usually that way, and being right is not always best. Coming to this realization, you have now entered the "Gray Area," a place where compromise, understanding and "seeing things their way" live. Getting your way is usually not as important as finding a way to work together.

Marriage is a wonderfully blessed union that brings life fulfillment and joy. While it may seem like there are times when things are not going quite as you expected, remember that there will be plenty of times when things are better than you could have ever imagined. The wedding may have given you your fairy-tale, but the marriage gives you your dream.

Dimensions matter: Size really matters when choosing the right diaper bag. Be sure to pick one that will grow with your baby's needs. While the bag may only need to accommodate diapers, bottles and wipes initially, it should be able to carry bigger toys, blankets and snacks as needed. It's also helpful if your purse or necessities can have a place inside the bag, to avoid carrying a bag for baby and a bag for you. Having a diaper bag for everyday use and a larger one for travelling is also a good idea.

Deep pockets deliver: Instead of one main inside section, consider bags that are compartmentalized with deep pockets. The more pockets the better. Expandable sections and pockets go a long way in keeping items organized. However, having plenty of pockets does not mean that the bag has to be bulky. Messenger bags are a sleek and stylish option.

Diapers in disguise: Many diapers bags are disguised as trendy totes. But one peek inside will reveal that they are much more! Complete with compartments and pockets galore, these designer diaper bags allow Mom to take care of baby without abandoning her sense of style.

Don't forget the accessories: A bag that comes with its own accessories is always a plus. For the ultra-organized, these additional bottle holders, change purses and necessity pouches are functional and help you find things quickly.

Dismiss the bag altogether: The latest trend in diaper bags is not a bag at all. It's a backpack. Backpacks provide plenty of pockets and hands-free mobility, especially helpful if you plan to use a baby carrier. Many backpacks also include insulated bottle holders, outer pockets for your beverages and internal holders for keys and cell phones, making them very handy, indeed.

Dad's choice: When choosing the color and pattern of the diaper bag, keep in mind that you may not be the only one to carry it. Let's face it. Dads may shy away from a hot-pink paisley diaper bag. Neutral colors or solids may be a better choice.

As you begin your search for the perfect bag, storage capacity and comfort balanced with quality should be your first considerations. Remember, you don't have to spend a bundle on a bag for your little bundle of joy. There are many cost-effective solutions that will accommodate your needs and your budget.

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Women in their late twenties, thirties, forties and beyond are usually established, with a houseful of furniture, appliances small and large, and all they need to live their lives on a day-to-day basis. When these women marry, more often than not, two households merge and purge. Fortunately, registries help guests with wedding gifts, and they even help with bridal shower gifts.

Yes, first-time brides, no matter how old they are, deserve a bridal shower. In a break with tradition, showers are now being given for the second-time bride, especially if she eloped or didn't have one before her first wedding.

So let's talk about bridal showers for older and "once again" brides. We'll pass on the lingerie shower, since these brides are probably way past the wowie-wow-wow wedding night. Here are five shower themes these brides might appreciate:

• Beginnin' With Linen - Not only can you never have enough linens, wouldn't it be nice for the newlyweds to start their lives together with all fresh linen? Sounds like a pajama party! She'll love getting plush towel sets, satin sheets, elegant tablecloths and napkins, dishcloths, even blankets!





• Raising the Bar - Entertaining is a whole new ballgame for the happy couple. Make the shower a wine and cheese tasting and stock their bar with martini glasses, margarita glasses, champagne flutes, wine glasses, coasters, bar accessories and premium liquors and wines.





• Marriage is a Trip - Perfect for the pair that loves to travel. Think "passport" invitations and travel poster decorations! Gifts? How about some matching luggage, for starters? They'll also need matching luggage tags, personalized travel tote bags, travel toiletry cases and a portable CD player.





• Holidaze - Thanksgiving, Fourth of July, New Year's Eve, Valentine's Day, Halloween, Christmas! Every holiday has its own special needs-serving platters for Thanksgiving, ornaments and other decorations for Christmas, a red-white-and-blue apron and tablecloth for the Fourth of July barbecue. And you can make the shower a special, one-day holiday with personalized decorations that feature photos of the happy couple.





• Gourmet Soiree - The spread for a gourmet shower is just as important as the gifts. Serve exotic, tantalizing appetizers and dishes, and invite the guests to bring gifts of gourmet food for the bride. Aged steaks, lobster, imported chocolates, nuts, coffee, cheeses, fruits, decadent desserts and cookbooks are just a few gift suggestions. And you'll be recognized as a host with outstanding taste!

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According to a recent article in The Wall Street Journal, The Jewish Outreach Institute in New York estimates there are more than 200,000 households in the U.S. in which gentile mothers and Jewish fathers are raising Jewish children. The challenge of bringing up children in a faith Mom knows little about is made much less daunting by The Mothers Circle, a national program that is dedicated to giving these women the knowledge and confidence to be successful in their endeavor.

Besides serving as a support group for women who find themselves in a world of unfamiliar biblical history and traditions, The Mothers Circle program give participants a basic Jewish education "with an emphasis on holidays and life-cycle events, like naming ceremonies and bar mitzvahs."

Their Web site (www.themotherscircle.org ) offers an eight-month educational course of instruction on Jewish practices and ethics intended specifically for non-Jewish women raising Jewish children. There is also a moderated discussion that allows women to share their experiences with other women like themselves who have chosen to raise their children Jewish. Another goal of the organization is to empower these women outside the home as they "learn to navigate the Jewish community."

The Mothers Circle acknowledges the great sacrifice made and the tremendous commitment undertaken "when a woman raises a child in a religious tradition different from her own." The group is an invaluable bridge between mother and child in what could be an extremely difficult situation and both the mothers, the fathers and the children are fortunate have a resource like The Mothers Circle in their corner.

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Moms need to know the warning signs of postpartum depression in dads: overwhelming and prolonged sadness, stretching himself too thin, lack of energy and a general disconnect from the baby and sometimes even the family. Now that you know the symptoms, let's talk about some solutions. Here are some simple steps to help get Dad out of the dumps:

• Time to Open Up: Encourage the new dad to talk about his feelings. A lot of dads and men in general aren't used to opening up and expressing their feelings. This really compounds postpartum depression because there is no cathartic release or emotional process to work through their feelings. Keep it casual, though. Driving in the car, working in the garden and walking in the neighborhood can create a comfortable discussion setting. It really doesn't matter where, just get them talking!
  
• Don't Forget the Husband-Wife Connection: Albeit unintentional, with so much attention required by the little one, it's easy to neglect others. Keep that spousal bond alive by sharing meals and staying in bed late on a Saturday morning just to talk to one another. Time scheduled away from the baby also helps to fan the flames of romance.
  
• There's Strength in Numbers: So the new dad won't feel like he is the only one with the blues, suggest he forms a support group with other new fathers to discuss the changes that are taking place. It's a great place to share ideas on how to navigate the new waters of fatherhood.
  
• Keep Him Encouraged: Let him know that he has your support. Say it with words and with actions. Leave an uplifting note on his pillow. Try sending him a nice gift "from the baby" like an engraved pocket watch locket including the baby's photo with a note that reads "I appreciate all the time you give me, Dad!" or a leather shoe shine kit that says, "My Dad outshines them all!" It's a cute and creative way to keep his spirits uplifted.

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