http://www.articletrader.com/ Articles at ArticleTrader en-us http://www.articletrader.com/self-improvement/motivation/how-to-hold-onto-your-peace-daily.html http://www.articletrader.com/self-improvement/motivation/how-to-hold-onto-your-peace-daily.html Thu, 15 Feb 2007 00:00:00 -0600 Each and everyone of us can surely say at one time or another we have been tested, tried and pushed into situations we weren’t proud of. In spite of what the situations have been – we have to learn to hold onto our peace. Going pass peace will cause frustration and a lot of time results in a moment of resentment. Having our buttons pushed is not a pleasant thing, however continually speaking God’s Word to any mountain in our life, will allow maturity in that area of our life. The Word is the beginning of everything! Planting the Word in our mouth and our heart results in transformation.

When we learn to hold onto our peace, it is a sure sign of maturity and growth. Everyday is not going to be the same. The enemy will surely try his game. Even if it results in an unpleasant situation, we have to remind ourselves who we are in Christ. We can’t let condemnation take root in our life.

Holding onto our peace will allow us to go to another level. It will cause advancements and promotions to come our way for the mere fact that we surrendered to the Word of God. The peace God gave us is for us. It is not intended for issues to rob us instantly of our peace. Losing our keys, hung-up in traffic, and the children acting like they have lost their mind is just a few situations that sometimes come upon us. God will allow us to continue to go around the same mulberry bush until we totally surrender and show we are ready for the next level.

Peace is so powerful! It will prevent you from making a wrong decision. Whenever you are somewhere you don’t belong – peace will allow you to be uncomfortable. Never go past your peace.

Philippians 4:7 ….and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

Let’s be determined in 2007 to continue to grow and move past the things the once bothered us. There is always someone, somewhere that we can touch in a special way. Holding onto our peace and letting peace be our guide will help us to develop and fulfill God purpose and plan for our life.

For a full resource of work at home information and inspiration visit: www.achristianmothersguide.com

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Iris Shamble has been sharing her writings for several years
and has contributed to the “International Library of Poetry”.
She has been a devout Christian for 15 years and is a
devoted wife to Darryl Shamble, and mother to
two lovely daughters. Iris currently works in the
Virginia school system, where she has become an expert
on the social and cultural pressures facing children everyday.
She has spent the last five years gathering and substantiating
information and interviews for “A Christian Mother’s Guide”.
Iris is also a youth mentor, women’s ministry leader and speaks before woman’s groups.


Source: http://www.articletrader.com ]]> http://www.articletrader.com/home-and-family/parenting/parenting-for-dummies-do-you-have-the-backbone-for-parenting.html http://www.articletrader.com/home-and-family/parenting/parenting-for-dummies-do-you-have-the-backbone-for-parenting.html Thu, 15 Feb 2007 00:00:00 -0600
Why is it that many parents are allowing their children to make decisions that they are not capable of making at their young age? Why it is that many parents are allowing their children to indulge in sex and alcohol while validating it right before their very own eyes? A lot of these parents feel that a child will do what they want to do anyway, so why not cover them with approval for illicit sex and drugs? I can’t conceive in my thinking how an adult that is responsible for raising a child would succumb to the suggestive, lustful and luring of our society?

Yes, I know our children will venture out and explore even in spite of your stern instruction and advice. I even know they will do many things we will not be pleased with. It’s all a part of growing up. One main thing I do know is as a parent, I would NEVER validate promiscuity and/or illegal and underage activities that could lead them into a lifestyle of destruction. I share with my girls – so what if Sally Sue’s mom allows her to have sex at her own house. I also share with them who cares that dazzling Diane is allowed to stay out till 5:00 o’clock in the morning at the young age of 16 years old. It is really sad to hear that Marvelous Mary’s parents bought her a brand new BMW just because - and she misses an average of two days a week from school.

We need to set standards for our children like never before that will not only promote good ethics, but good character and conduct for a quality life. They should be learning to live a life where you know you have to work for success and achieve great things through persistence. Letting our children know we shouldn’t be doing certain things just because it’s popular among the crowd is a strong parenting tool.

There is just too many parents allowing their children to do what they want to do for the simple fact, they do not want any challenges or conflicts. I have had many conflicts and I am sure there will be more to come. However I refuse to standby and allow my daughters on my behalf disrespect what we value as respectable and quality living..

As parents we shouldn’t let a child dictate to us what they will and will not do. They will not care for a lot of our decision making, however they will get over it. If we mess up, we have to be willing to apologize or explain what our intent was. A lot of times they will hate our guts, but I truly believe they will respect what we stood for as they age and mature. Our children are precious gifts from God and they should be treated and guided into the best direction that we can provide them.

Don’t cave in or give up on parenting. Most of all don’t be responsible for your children going down a wrong path of life at an early age because you didn’t want to say NO!

For a full resource of work at home information and inspiration visit: www.achristianmothersguide.com

The Ultimate Baby & Resource Guide: www.parentingguide.biz


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Iris Shamble has been sharing her writings for several years
and has contributed to the “International Library of Poetry”.
She has been a devout Christian for 15 years and is a
devoted wife to Darryl Shamble, and mother to
two lovely daughters. Iris currently works in the
Virginia school system, where she has become an expert
on the social and cultural pressures facing children everyday.
She has spent the last five years gathering and substantiating
information and interviews for “A Christian Mother’s Guide”.
Iris is also a youth mentor, women’s ministry leader and speaks before woman’s groups.


Source: http://www.articletrader.com ]]> http://www.articletrader.com/home-and-family/parenting/a-mothers-touch-is-like-no-other.html http://www.articletrader.com/home-and-family/parenting/a-mothers-touch-is-like-no-other.html Wed, 07 Feb 2007 00:00:00 -0600
When you find out you are going to be a mother, you change physically and emotionally. Preparing for this new role is challenging, most of all it can be rewarding for you and your children. Along with the touch of a mother, we must also make plans to meet our children needs--financially, spiritually and emotionally. God’s Word has given us clear instruction for training our child. Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it. That touch of instruction carries great rewards, however motherhood is not easy! We can’t give up on any little obstacle: We must be determined to be the best mother we can.

We can’t let challenges in life consume us. Find time to relax, read, enjoy a brisk walk, a soothing bath to keep your mind from the hustle, you encounter in life. As you continue to apply the Word of God to your life, you will find your mind renewed, and you will achieve victories!

Once you become a mother, it is imperative to be there for your children. It is a must! Setting a career aside for the first five years of your child’s life can give him/her the best start in life. Remember that a Mothers Touch is like no other. One thing I know we all will agree on is time can never be replaced; money can always be earned. Many things we make commitments to are just other ways to fill a void in our life. Applying the principles and teachings from the Word of God gives clear instructions and directions to help us be the best mothers can. Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the thoughts I think towards you says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.

You get out of motherhood what you put into it. I see many teens left to fend for themselves and it hurts my heart when I talk with them. I learn they have no sense of direction or value on their lives. Isn’t that sad? We can’t make excuses for our children’s improper behavior. Granted there are some strong willed children who need to be dealt with according to the Word of God. Our children will at times bring disappointments and even rebellion, but one thing I’ve learned was not to dwell on the problem, but to concentrate on the Word and prayer. Also seeking counsel from friends whose children reflect their child rearing is a big plus. There are much in our children we need to bring out to see dreams and goals come to fruition.

Because of the desire I have to see mothers be able to bring income into their home, while spending quality time with their family, “A Christian Mothers Guide” was birthed. On my site www.achristianmothersguide.com information is carefully selected. I spend valuable time searching to offer quality to those interested in a serious change in their lives. I want to save others the trouble and time I encountered at one time looking for a legitimate work-at-home job. Not only will you receive inspiration for living successfully; you will find legitimate work-at-home resources to help you on your way.

It’s time to get back to the basics in parenting, so our children will not be a menace to society. Our children are priceless – let’s put all we can into while we have the chance.

For a full resource of work at home information and inspiration visit: www.achristianmothersguide.com

The Ultimate Baby & Resource Guide: www.parentingguide.biz


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Iris Shamble has been sharing her writings for several years
and has contributed to the “International Library of Poetry”.
She has been a devout Christian for 15 years and is a
devoted wife to Darryl Shamble, and mother to
two lovely daughters. Iris currently works in the
Virginia school system, where she has become an expert
on the social and cultural pressures facing children everyday.
She has spent the last five years gathering and substantiating
information and interviews for “A Christian Mother’s Guide”.
Iris is also a youth mentor, women’s ministry leader and speaks before woman’s groups.





Source: http://www.articletrader.com ]]> http://www.articletrader.com/home-and-family/parenting/a-day-as-a-mother--no-compromising-allowed.html http://www.articletrader.com/home-and-family/parenting/a-day-as-a-mother--no-compromising-allowed.html Wed, 07 Feb 2007 00:00:00 -0600 As a mother and wife, there are times when I feel like “hey” I need a raise! If mothers were paid a salary for every position we hold, we would all be millionaires. Think about your days; you are a teacher, doctor, lawyer, taxi driver, vet, and volunteer. The list goes on and on.

We must be proud of being mothers, and be the best we can. The impact we have on our children is priceless! Even through the trying times of teen years, as we emmerse ourselves in the Word of God, seek true counsel and prayer, we can be victorious. Pretty soon we will look back at it and say,…Boy we made it!

As a mother, I must say, “I do love it”! Certain things have to be cultivated in our lives, but each and every mother has the God-given potential to be a great mother. Proverbs 31:11-12, The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and no evil, all the days of her life…vs.15 She also rises while it is yet night, and provides food for her household…vs. 28 Her children rise up and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her.
Most women can give birth to children, but how many can be called a “Great Mother?” When a woman becomes a mother, her life totally changes. To be there for your children is such a rewarding task

Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart. One important point I must make is whatever way we train our children that is the way they will go! Very important not to compromise when it comes to training your children. Always be willing to change. Each year you should grow, incorporate something different that wasn’t there previously. Never let condemnation set in our lives. We do make mistakes in training our children, one thing I must add as we abide & are instructed by the word of God we cannot fail. I see many teenagers that have no sense of direction and no sense of real love.

Some parents have made the choice of having a career, money, education and other luxuries over their skills in parenting. There’s nothing wrong with any of these things, but our children should not be compromised. A lot of our children are basically left to fend for themselves, because of the choices their parents make.

Because of the desire I have to see mothers be able to bring income into their home, while spending quality time with their family, “A Christian Mothers Guide” was birthed. On my site www.achristianmothersguide.com information is carefully selected. I spend valuable time searching to offer quality to those interested in a serious change in their lives. I want to save others the trouble and time I encountered at one time looking for a legitimate work-at-home job. Not only will you receive inspiration for living successfully; you will find legitimate work-at-home resources to help you on your way.
It’s time to get back to the basics in parenting, so our children will not become menaces to society. A day as a mother is a day like no other: Every word your child says will always refer back to mother!

For a full resource of work at home information and inspiration visit: www.achristianmothersguide.com

The Ultimate Baby & Resource Guide: www.parentingguide.biz



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Iris Shamble has been sharing her writings for several yearsand has contributed to the “International Library of Poetry”. She has been a devout Christian for 15 years and is a devoted wife to Darryl Shamble, and mother to two lovely daughters. Iris currently works in the Virginia school system, where she has become an expert on the social and cultural pressures facing children everyday. She has spent the last five years gathering and substantiating information and interviews for “A Christian Mother’s Guide”. Iris is also a youth mentor, women’s ministry leader and speaks before woman’s groups.

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