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<title>Bariatric Surgery Diet</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ The idea that your stomach will be the size of your fist can be frightening and hard to believe. How will you eat? What exactly will you be required to eat? These questions are just a few concerns that many people face when they are looking at Bariatric procedures. Nevertheless, setting up your new eating plan is not as intimidating as you think.<br /><br />While surgery ultimately creates a solution to your problem, you still have to address this issue before you go under the knife. The majority of doctors feel that it’s important to learn correct eating habits beforehand, no matter how obese you may be. It is critical that you are eating healthy and beginning a new lifestyle, so that when you do come back a new person (physically), adjusting will be easier. For this reason, it is recommended that you consult a dietician before you undergo stomach stapling. Find out what will help you lose weight prior to the surgery and what you should be eating when you have completed the procedure.<br /><br />Let’s face it - most of us dread the days after any type of surgery. We have to be careful of what we eat and usually do not have the strength to eat more than a few bites. This procedure is no different - the first few weeks will consist of just liquids. Soup and cooked cereal are just a few examples of what you may be able to digest. As you slowly build up to the next several weeks, you will begin to introduce pureed foods. It becomes less limiting when your physician allows you to indulge in softer foods such as yogurt and eggs. Anything that is tender and easy to chew is a great start. It’s imperative that you re-train your stomach, or you could do serious damage. Depending on your physician’s orders, you may not be eating solid food for several months. Carbohydrates such as bread and pasta should be avoided. Instead, protein is key because it helps repair the damage that has been done. Try protein shakes or an exercise nutrition bar. Your body needs to absorb protein, especially in the beginning stages when you are not digesting solid food.<br /><br />Bariatric surgery diets may sound restricting and often overwhelming, but with anything, it becomes second nature. New diet rituals will soon feel like old habits - such as eating small meals and taking daily vitamin supplements. No matter how difficult it may be, stay positive. Embrace the fact that you were able to have such a surgery - not everyone gets a second chance at <br /><br /><br /><br /><br />--<br />“To learn more about the different types of weight loss surgery, visit http://www.TerminalObesity.com/ where you’ll find this and more, including life after weight loss surgery.”<br><br>Source: <a href="http://www.articletrader.com/">http://www.articletrader.com</a> ]]></description>
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<title>An Old Farts View of Cohabitation</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 06 Aug 2007 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ I live in a community that is probably not much different than yours. Within walking distance of my home you find those that are rich or poor but mostly middle class. Some live in trailers, or apartments others live in large beautiful estates while most of us live in comfortable middle class dwellings.  Regardless of the socio economic standing within our neighborhood we all have many things in common.  Throughout our area I see many broken homes. I see children having children, couples whom have already raised one family now raising their grandchildren or both their children and grandchildren. I see young adults playing house, cohabiting as if they were married yet they have not made a truly serious commitment to each other.<br><br>In my own home I have a grandchild I love dearly. Today is his 8th birthday and he is visiting with his mother who he sees infrequently even though she lives only a few miles away. My son and his girlfriend lived together for a few years prior to my grandson’s birth. Like many children born in the United States he was a product of that relationship. In 2005 more than 1 in 3 births in the United States were to unmarried women and this country does not stand alone with this issue. <br><br>A 1997 Gallup Poll reported the “United States stands out as the country most evenly divided over the morality of out-of-wedlock births, with 47% saying it is wrong and 50% saying it is not wrong. In fact, the U.S. is the only country surveyed by Gallup in which there is not a clear majority consensus on one side or the other.’ ‘The most liberal countries on this issue -- with 90% or more of adults saying it is morally acceptable -- are Germany, France and Iceland. At the same time, very high percentages in countries such as India, Singapore and Taiwan say it is not acceptable.” <br><br>Experts throw out figures of a divorce rate that ranges between 40-50 percent depending upon how it is calculated. While I do not like using statistics I want to make the point that we live in a throw away society of broken relationships, a society that needs to be fixed. Is cohabitation of unmarried couples responsible for this? I do not think that it is yet I truly believe that it is a contributing factor.<br><br>Recently while walking my grandson to his friends, the question struck me; do we have many families in the neighborhood where the children are being raised by two parents? One of the first houses we passed is one where the grandparents regularly care for the children of their daughter a single mother. Across the street a young boy lives with his mother and grandmother and his young sister lives in another state with the father. The next house up is one where the children live with their mother and stepfather. Down the street is a home where the father, son and grandparents live together and across from them is a single mother with three young children. In several other homes are children that do indeed reside with two parents. From what I estimated about ½ of the children in our neighborhood live in a two-parent home. Statistically that would place our neighborhood below norm. The 2003 US Census report was much more positive, reporting that 7 out of 10 children live in a two-parent home, a figure that included both married and unmarried couples. Still for us that live in or deal with the problems of broken homes the census offers little comfort.<br><br>I grew up in the 50’s and 60’s and things seemed so much simpler. Color television was just being introduced so it was at the top of the “want list” for many families but still unaffordable for most. We did not have computers, DVDs, cell phones, iPods or most of the other electronic toys you see today. ATV’s and PWC’s (Personal Watercraft), such as Jet Skis were something only found in comic books. Kids did not need to make the choice between video games and homework for we did not have video games or what I like to call PBS’s (Personal Baby Sitters). As children we played outdoors until dark and our parents had trouble getting us in. Today you can hardly get children to go outdoors and play. Many parents do not complain about their couch potato children as they know where they are and they are out of their hair while playing with their PBS’s.<br><br>As a youngster, two parent households were the norm. While in some families both parents chose to hold an outside job, mothers were not required to do so just to keep up with the neighbors and pay for the expensive electronic and recreation toys. Children seemed to mind better. Was minding because discipline was still in vogue at both the home and school?  When I was a child when you got in trouble at school you likely got in trouble at home. Today many of our educators refrain from using even mild discipline techniques for fear that the parent will go after them and the school. Perhaps this has little to do with cohabitation though I believe it has a lot to do with the relaxation of our morals.<br><br>While premarital sex naturally occurred it was frowned on in the 1950s and early 60s. The social pressures were greater to marry early.  The median age for boys to marry was 22 and girls 19. A girl would often feel like an old maid if she was still unmarried by the age of 30. Today social pressures are much more relaxed when it comes to premarital sex and more girls are earning college degrees, factors that account for later marriages. Today the median age for boys to marry is 27 and girls 24. Many more couples are playing house right out of high school and have many different partners prior to settling down and taking the marital oath.<br><br>Times have changed and the future will continue to bring new changes that will make our homes, transportation, entertainment and toys of today look antiquated. Will our morals relax even more? Will it become expected to make sure the shoe fits before we tie the knot? Will marriage become a thing of the past?  I do not know the answers to these questions. I do know that many of us old timers while enjoying the benefits of modernization, still prefer the family life of the 1950’s.<br><br><br><br /><br />--<br />Terrance Lile - Uncle Terry, not your typical family issues writer, serves frank, down to earth, sometimes brutal advice on sex and life. Uncle Terry uses humor and knowledge as he often calls upon personal experience. As a sex educator he promotes safe sex and abstinence until in a mature adult relationship. Visit Uncle Terry at http://www.AskUncleTerry.com<br><br>Source: <a href="http://www.articletrader.com/">http://www.articletrader.com</a> ]]></description>
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<title>Payback Time - Surviving Adolescence</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jun 2007 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ <br>As children our parents may have said, “you’ll get yours!” Or used such terms as “payback time.” That cuddly little baby came along and you made it through the “terrible two’s” and early parts of childhood. You went through the potty training. You survived the tantrums while shopping when the little ones wanted everything they saw and would start screaming when they didn’t get it. You tried shouting at your child and found that this works as well as driving your car with its horn. Soon things are going much smoother and you are finding it easier to love your child. You are now thinking that “payback time” was not so bad. It looks as if you have trained some very well mannered children that know you are the boss and they better listen up or else. Once again, I hate to remind you folks but you also have the joy of puberty and adolescence to look forward to. Now, I realize you were a perfect child and never gave your parents a bit of trouble. You never back-talked, fibbed, snuck out of the house or did anything else that your parents should be upset about. I understand just where you are coming from, for I was a perfect child too. Now my brother and sisters, I know they gave our parents plenty of trouble but me, I was just the one that got grounded or spanked when they did something wrong. Now with your child it will be different than it was with you. <br><br>As your cute little darling is going through the adolescent years you are going to have some very trying times. Adolescence is the age at which children stop asking questions because they know all of the answers. This is the time they are going to do all of those things that we don’t want to admit that we did. You will tell them not to snack before supper and a little while later you catch them with a cookie and soda pop in their hand. “But mom, I caught the dog with the soda and cookie and I was just putting them away.”  You catch them sneaking into the house at midnight when you had sent them off to bed at 9PM. “But dad, I heard a noise outside and was just checking on the cat.” You ask, “Did you do your homework this afternoon?”  “Oh yes,” they reply, but the next day you get a call from the school, only to find out that no homework has been turned in for the last two weeks. Over time, you try all types of punishment from taking privileges away, grounding and spanking (yes, the good old spanking does still go on in some homes, but nothing seems to work. Suddenly you are starting to think that my parents were right and I am getting mine.<br><br>The adolescent continues to defy you and you keep fighting back. Remember this is adolescence, an age when the children are trying to bring up their parents. Don’t fret, you are lucky, for in 8 to 10 years they should be through this stage, and time does seem to go by fast when you are having fun.<br><br>While puberty and the teen years are often spotted with periods of hell for the parents, it is also a magnificent time.  A time when what was once no more than just a seed (egg) and a bit of fertilizer (sperm) has started to develop into a beautiful flower. I know you will have days when you think of them more as a vegetable or weed than a flower but this is normal, so don’t fret, just survive.<br><br>If we can think back as far as our own puberty and adolescent years, we will remember that there were periods of hell for us, too. Our bodies were making some horrific changes that we probably did not completely understand. In all honesty, if we were placed under hypnosis, we would probably find out that we, too, were rebellious.  <br><br>It isn’t easy to change from a child to an adult, something that we didn’t choose. The chemicals in our bodies called hormones made this choice. As we are going through these changes we are doing a lot of questioning, we start to get a bit of hair under our arms and on our crotch and we think that we are now grown up and should be treated as an adult. We want to do things our way and not be told how we should to it. The word “no” is not in our vocabulary, at least when our parents or other adults tell us that we shouldn’t do something.<br><br>You will have times when your teenager has episodes of anger and negativity in which they slam doors and scream tirades. According to experts, most puberty-driven “snit fits” last and average of 15 minutes, it just seems like longer because they are doing it off and on for about 15 years. I think my parents were right and there is such a thing as “payback time!”<br><br><br><br /><br />--<br />Terrance Lile - Uncle Terry, not your typical family issues writer, serves frank, down to earth, sometimes brutal advice on sex and life. Uncle Terry uses humor and knowledge as he often calls upon personal experience. As a sex educator he promotes safe sex and abstinence until in a mature adult relationship. Visit Uncle Terry at http://www.AskUncleTerry.com<br><br>Source: <a href="http://www.articletrader.com/">http://www.articletrader.com</a> ]]></description>
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<title>Making a Guy Cum</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 03 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Men are often viewed as being easy to please. The penis may not be as complicated as a vagina, but it should not be treated as if it lacks any feeling. That’s right ladies. Guys have feelings too and getting a guy to cum is not as easy as flipping on a light switch.<br><br>If a woman expects a guy to know how to rock their world, isn’t it fair for a guy to anticipate the same in return? Having sex with a woman is far from an in and out process. A woman’s partner must realize that there are many erogenous zones that must be attended to. Despite common belief, guys are the same way. In my column at Erotica69.com I love to give tips for good sex and erogenous zones are near the top of the list.<br><br>Erogenous zones are areas on a person’s body that give them a feeling of sexual arousal. Surprisingly, we are sensitive all over are bodies. From ear lobes to genitals, these targets should not be ignored. Before you even begin having sex, massage his body with your hands and mouth. Make him crazy and avoid contact with his penis right away. This will leave him yearning for more.<br><br>Another great way to pleasure your mate is to play with his balls. No matter what, absolutely do not forget his balls! Some men may not like the feeling but others need that extra bit of rubbing. Experiment with your guy if you’re unsure. Gently massage his balls with your tongue and if he likes that, work your way up to rubbing them with your hand. Nevertheless, make sure you are not too rough. While his shaft is used to taking a beating, his balls are not. Most importantly, if you want to make your man cum, pinching and biting his sack will not help you. <br><br>Making a guy cum is not as easy as flipping a switch, but start with turning on the lights. Having lights on might make you feel uncomfortable, but to him, it’s the best thing in the world. The majority of stimulation for a male is visual. Guys enjoy watching porn and associate all the porn they have seen with watching you. Notice how he always brushes your hair out of your face while you’re giving him head? He’s not trying to be nice. He’s trying to get a good view. Unless he asks you to wear a paper bag over your head, bend over, feel sexy and do it in front of a mirror.<br><br>Make some noise. We as humans are all about our senses. This point will really hit home with a simple experiment. Sit in front of the television and watch it for about 20 seconds. After 20 seconds hit the mute button; it’s not as enjoyable, is it? That is what it is like for a guy having sex with a quiet girl. Moan and scream into a pillow if you don’t want to wake the neighbors. He will enjoy the ride much more. <br><br>It is also crucial to talk dirty. There is nothing sexier than a woman who knows what they want. There are a few phrases that could either kill or heighten the moment very quickly. Try and find the right level of dirty talk that is acceptable. If he reciprocates, try taking it up to the next level. If you really want him to cum, tell him that. Say, “Cum in me” in a really seductive voice. That is sure to make him blow his load. Remember, dirty talking does not make you a slut, so scream it loud and proud. <br><br>Furthermore, different positions can make all of the difference. If you only do missionary, it’s time to break the habit. Try switching it up and attempt the doggy style. You may think that it is because he doesn’t want to look at your face, but if that were the case he would use the paper bag. Besides, your vagina will benefit from trying new positions. As a result, his penis will hit your g-spot more effectively in some positions than others. <br><br>Guys are not that difficult to please. Be loud, horny, flexible, rough, dirty and spontaneous. Let him know that he is the man and he can rock your world (even if he’s sub par). Most importantly, guys don’t like a dead fish. If you are one, he may want to go out fishing to find a new catch.  <br><br><br><br /><br />--<br />The life of Princess Kay has been a fantasy. Being born into a Royal family sounds intriguing. In truth her life may not have been much different than yours. In her weekly column “Where fairy tales can come true.” at Erotica69.com, Princess Kay talks sex and relationships and may even share a few royal secrets. Visit http://www.erotica69.com, the site where grownups come to play. Princess Kay will be waiting for you.<br><br>Source: <a href="http://www.articletrader.com/">http://www.articletrader.com</a> ]]></description>
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<title>Using Our Senses To Increase Sexual Desire</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ In almost every relationship there comes a time when the passion seems to fade away, and little hope of recovery is in sight. At Ask Uncle Terry I am often asked, “How can we increase the sexual desire in our relationship?” <br><br>During romance and sex, we rely on every sense our body has to offer. The sense of sight, smell, touch, taste and sound are crucial in every sexual experience. It is almost natural that we heighten these senses when we want to attract a mate. It is these same senses we can use to increase sexual desire and increase communications during sex.<br><br>Driven by sight, men are prone to enjoy visual stimulation. Try experimenting with your hair up or down. Purchase some sexy lingerie to give him eye candy. If you don’t normally wear thongs, surprise him one night by wearing one and bend over to pick something up. Clothing is only one aspect of sight that will get his blood boiling. <br><br>Next time you perform oral sex on your partner, make sure they he can see what you are doing. Take a moment to look up and make eye contact. Make it clear that you want them badly. Feel free to touch yourself while pleasuring them. It is extremely sexy watching your partner masturbate; hence there is nothing to be ashamed of. For this reason alone, you should avoid holding back.<br>  <br>Smell is also a subtle category that people usually overlook. As we all know, it is vital to bathe and smell good. No one wants to get a whiff of something awful during sex. The wrong scent can break the mood instantly, but the right smell can make someone go wild. Girls wear perfume and guys wear cologne to attract others. Be careful not to apply too much prosthetic scent, otherwise people will think you sprayed yourself with the bathroom air freshener.  <br><br>One of the most important senses during intercourse is the sense of touch. Knowing the right buttons to push on your partner is crucial. If you are still exploring each other’s bodies, take the time to do so. Give each other a massage with some sensual oils. See how long you can go without their love package. Tease them a little with an occasional grin. Don’t give your man what he wants right away. If sex is an in-and-out operation everyone loses. <br> <br>Women and men have erogenous zones that need attention. These sensitive parts range from the obvious genitalia to the not so obvious fingertips. Experiment with different parts on their body. Work your way down from the ears to the toes. Our entire body needs attention. <br> <br>More people need to talk dirty. It is a common belief that talking dirty can be repulsive or demeaning but this couldn’t be further from the truth. We feed off each other aurally just as much as we do orally. Imagine watching television without the sound; boring isn’t it? Resurrect your sex life with loud moans as if you were having phone sex. <br><br>If you haven’t implemented foods during sex, you are missing out. Whipped cream, hot fudge (not too hot) and cherries are pleasant sexual desserts waiting to happen. This is a great way to get your sense of taste jumping for joy. Be creative with fruits and flavored toppings. Just make sure nothing has expired. <br> <br>When you are out of the bedroom, surprise each other with a sporadic grab on the rear end. This alone will surely bring the excitement back. During dinner at a nice restaurant, try whispering naughty things in each other’s ears. Often couples fall into a terrible mindset of lovemaking as being nothing more than routine business. With these tips in mind, there is still hope to bring back that sexual desire. Good luck!<br><br><br><br /><br />--<br /><br>Writer Terrance Lile brings you AskUncleTerry.com and Uncle Terry’s Sexual Advice Forum, a highly acclaimed and rapidly growing adult sexual education site. This informative and well designed website has lots of information for the enjoyment of great sex, safe sex, relationships and dating. Uncle Terry is an advocate of sexual abstinence until in a long-term committed relationship. Visit Uncle Terry at http://www.askuncleterry.com<br><br>Source: <a href="http://www.articletrader.com/">http://www.articletrader.com</a> ]]></description>
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<title>First Time Intercourse</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jan 2007 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ At AskUncleTerry.com we talk a lot about safe sex and waiting for sex until in a committed adult relationship. First time intercourse should not be based upon a hasty decision, but rather a chaste one. Losing your virginity is very important and is certainly a moment that is remembered forever. If you feel it is time, let your partner know. With this knowledge, he/she should not only be respectful of your choice, but also very willing to make your experience unforgettable.<br><br>For women, first time intercourse may be painful. The discomfort may come from dryness of the vaginal walls or from the breaking of the hymen. The hymen, a thin protective layer of skin, may already have been broken due to gymnastics or horseback riding. Nevertheless, when it breaks it is known as, “popping the cherry.” At this point, the hymen will cause some blood to appear.<br><br>The dryness may come from a lack of her ability to enjoy the ride. If the woman is too concerned about someone seeing her naked, she will find it hard to relax and let her womanly juices flow. Those juices are a natural lubricant that will invite his penis over for dinner and welcome him to stay a while. If he is hurting you by going too far in or too fast, let him know. This is a moment that should be savored and not rushed. <br><br>When a man has sex for the first time, he may be afraid of premature ejaculation, or feel as though his manhood is insignificant. It is imperative for the man to show confidence and believe in his ability to make the ladies crazy. His female companion can help him with his confidence problems, by letting him know that he really turns her on.  <br><br>At times, anxiety might get the best of you, thus it is vital to try and relax. Let your partner know that you are scared, because they can clearly calm you down. Put on relaxing music and light some candles; do whatever is necessary to help put you at ease.  <br><br>There comes a time in every man’s life when he is ready for sex. This cliché phrase is great, but it doesn’t include the other half of the equation; your partner. The most essential part to succeed in making love for the first time is communication. Let each other know where you stand.  By doing so, your experience will be much more special.<br><br>Unfortunately in today’s society, the word “virginity” carries a negative connotation. People are beginning to have sex at younger ages and are diluting their morality. High school students poke fun at those who value their decision to wait. Kids can be cruel at times, and social pressures force a lot of young adults to rush. Much like holding hands, oral sex is becoming a standard in dating. The act of rounding third base has never been less controversial, and thus develops into a “gateway” for sex. For this reason, don’t let outside pressure influence your decision. <br>  <br>Before you choose to lose your virginity, ask yourself, “Are you ready?” How many times have you left the mall with an impulse purchase in your hand? You should never rush into sex. Make sure the heat of the moment doesn’t overwhelm your decision making skills. If this does happen, take a deep breath and then come to a decision. Sex isn’t like a pair of heels that can be returned with a receipt. <br><br>While sex is always a new experience, it shouldn’t be a scary rollercoaster ride. Rather, it should be a blissful swim at the lake. Be prepared and have the condoms ready to go. No condom no sex.  Don’t rush into intercourse, this should not be a “slam, bam, thank you mam,” occasion. Take your time and get to know each other’s body and points of pleasure. Tell each other what feels good and what does not. In time, you will have more fun than you could have ever imagined. <br><br><br><br /><br />--<br />Writer Terrance Lile brings you Ask Uncle Terry, an increasingly popular sexual education website. Through a blend of sincerity and humor this website provides sexual information and advice, offers a free forum, promotes safe sex, and encourages abstinence until in a committed relationship. http://www.askuncleterry.com<br><br>Source: <a href="http://www.articletrader.com/">http://www.articletrader.com</a> ]]></description>
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<title>Do I Really Need a Condom?</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jan 2007 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ As humans we enjoy physical contact. Simply the touch of a partner’s hand or the gentle caressing of their lips heightens our senses. At AskUncleTerry.com, we often receive questions such as: “Is a condom mandatory?” An embrace in clothing is not as stimulating as holding one another in the nude. So why do people continue to wear condoms if they know sex relies heavily on feeling? True, there are pros and cons to condoms. Many people weigh their options and come to a personal decision that suits them.<br><br>Do you really want to kill the moment? Condoms are a great way to be safe, but can quickly eliminate the vibe, especially while applying. If you ask your partner to wear a condom, make sure to sustain the mood with erotic talk. Start touching yourself and moan loudly. The guy should be able to maintain his erection throughout the awkwardness of applying the condom. Better yet, you put the condom on him, he will enjoy watching you stroke his man-hood and remain in “good-to-go” mode. If you decide not to use a condom, imagine yourself playing Russian roulette, not knowing if a bullet is going to result in a pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease. <br><br>Are you at a point in your life where you want a baby? Condoms are not 100% effective against impregnating someone, yet they can be a great preventative measure. “Don’t worry about it. I'll pull out.” Some guys claim to pull out before having an orgasm, but pre-ejaculate comes without warning and can knock up a woman pretty easily. If having a child with your partner makes you twitch, perhaps protection should be considered. If you are completely against condoms and in a safe relationship, there are other methods of birth control. <br> <br>Do you really need a sexually transmitted disease? The pill, the patch and the shot are great ways to get pleasure from sex and help prevent the stork from flying in with a baby. However, contraceptives do not protect against STD’s. If you are with a steady partner, go and get tested. Once the doctor gives both of you the thumbs up, cross your fingers and hope your partner is faithful. Having unprotected sex is a gamble, and with every good thing in life, comes consequence.<br><br>How much sensitivity will you accept during sex? Condoms vary in styles from ultra-thin to ribbed, which will give you much more pleasure than the standard condom. For most guys, the standard condom can detract a good amount as far as feeling and it is easily compared to wearing a raincoat. Now imagine the raincoat giving you a big hug, forcing you to gasp for air. Suffocated and robbed of sensitivity is how a penis may feel, trapped inside a standard condom. Girls may also loose some sense of gratification when their man wears a condom. Vaginas are generally sensitive to touch, thus the naked penis gently sliding in and out may feel great. Is it worth the risk or are you going to accept a little less sensitivity by using a textured or ultra thin condom instead of the standard raincoat? <br> <br>If babies and sexually transmitted diseases are not on your gift list this year, be careful and come to an educated decision. Remember, sex is not only penis to vagina contact; sex involves mood, touch and respect. Whether your choice is to wear a condom or not, you must listen to one another and work as a team. Watch out for the stork, he can be brutal to those without protection. For me, I will give up a bit of sensitivity, wear a condom and protect my partner and myself against an unwanted pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease.<br><br><br><br /><br />--<br />Writer Terrance Lile brings you Ask Uncle Terry & The University of ForumErotica. One of the fastest growing sexual education sites on the Internet, it is unlike anything else. Through a blend of sincerity and humor this website provides a huge amount of sexual information for the enjoyment of great sex, while at the same time encouraging abstinence until in a committed relationship. http://www.askuncleterry.com<br><br>Source: <a href="http://www.articletrader.com/">http://www.articletrader.com</a> ]]></description>
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<description><![CDATA[ We all enjoy the sensation of touch, regardless of whether it's sexual or not. Erogenous zones are particular body parts that are highly sensitive to sexual arousal. While the majority of males think that women can orgasm through thrusting alone--or just from the touch of their "manly hand"--this is rarely the truth. Some areas are extremely sensitive and the stimulation of these areas is definitely a precursor for good sex. Locating and stimulating your partner's erogenous zones can be part of the fun of foreplay prior to intercourse, or can even let you please your partner without intercourse being involved.<br><br>At AskUncleTerry.com, one of the major complaints we hear from women is that they are not being sexually satisfied by their partner. There is an old and wise saying: Women prefer 30-45 minutes of foreplay and men prefer 30-45 seconds of foreplay. Men consider driving back to her place as part of the foreplay. If your man is one of these guys, be sure to slip this article into his lunch bucket or brief case!<br><br>That's right, guys: By locating all of the right trigger points, you too will be able to get your woman to stop pretending to orgasm and to do it for real.<br><br>Surprisingly, erogenous zones between men and women are quite common. While we do have different genitalia, our nerve endings are similar.  Women, for instance, find it very stimulating if you caress their breasts. What most people do not realize is that the nipple is actually very sensitive to touch. Due to the fact that there are hundreds of nerve endings within the areola, it can be extremely exhilarating to lick or touch this area.<br><br>While some men jump over the clitoris and pretend it is just there to look pretty, it can actually be one of the most pleasurable organs on a woman. Astonishingly, this small piece of skin is only meant for sexual stimulation. It has no other known function except for tremendous pleasure. For this reason, rubbing your partner's clitoris or applying some sort of touch will drive her crazy. As a result, she could orgasm just from direct clitoral contact. Looking to stimulate the G-spot? When having sex, try touching her clitoris as well. This will heighten every experience.<br><br>We all know that the genitalia is a great erogenous spot. However, the parts of the body we pay less attention to can be just as great, and sometimes greater. The neck and ears are very sensitive to stimulate. Kissing, rubbing, or even licking will most likely get your partner going. Still not surprised? Another unusual place for erogenous activity is the head. The scalp is a very popular area, which surprisingly, may get your partner in the mood. This is why we all crave massages when we go to the hair salon. It makes us feel good, and we can never get enough of it.<br><br>Your toes are another mood enhancer. Though some people feel this is more of a fetish, the majority of women get shivers down their spine when their feet are rubbed. Whether you like to rub them, lick them, or do some sort of "dirty deed" we don't want to know about, any one of a dozen such activities could end up giving her an orgasm.<br><br>When it comes to sexual stimulation, the majority of us pray that we are doing everything right. We stick to the normal guidelines--playing with the genitalia, and maybe sprinkling exotic kisses here and there. Though these are great ideas, the passion, at some point, stops. Try spicing up your bedroom life by adding a few touches to the neck, breasts, areola, ears, navel, wrists, feet, toes, knees, buttocks, labia, clitoris, anus and inner thigh area. It is amazing that such a large part of your body can be so sensual during intimacy with your sweetie. These ideas will certainly alter and enhance every sexual experience you've ever had. Trust us, we've tried them! If you need a little more direction AskUncleTerry.com is there to guide you.<br><br><br><br /><br />--<br /><br>Writer Terrance Lile brings you Ask Uncle Terry & ForumErotica, the fastest growing sexual education experience in cyberspace. Through a blend of morality, sincerity and humor this website provides sexual information for the enjoyment of diverse and safe sexual practices, while at the same time encouraging abstinence until in a committed relationship. http://www.askuncleterry.com<br><br>Source: <a href="http://www.articletrader.com/">http://www.articletrader.com</a> ]]></description>
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