Tips on How to Attract a Women Part 2

In Part 1, we talked about what it takes to learn how to attract a female and went over the basic components of personality.

Out of the personality traits that we have already discussed, I would say that conversational skills and a sense of humor are the way to build a solid foundation, while using the others to add a certain polish that is sure to make you stand out even more.

When it comes to how to attract a woman and getting her to open that much-coveted window of opportunity for you, she needs to find you amusing and witty.

Couple that with being able to have a conversation with her that lets her know you think she is special and unique, and never make her feel like you are simply trying to get her in bed, and you just might have the chance to slide right through that window of opportunity.

How to Sabotage Everything

Would you love to know exactly what you are doing that is sabotaging your efforts to attract women?

There is one, single thing you are doing that will undermine every effort you make regarding how to attract a female, and you must stop doing this.

The one thing you are doing that is sure to shoot down relationship opportunities and is totally within you control is...

COMING ON TOO STRONG.

The part that I find funny about this is that I know you are probably nodding your head and saying something along the lines of, "Yeah, I know dude..."

But, even though you agree, you will not stop doing it!

Why is that?

Why are you not able to stop yourself from doing this?

Here's the deal: Many argue that at least part of our actions and reactions are not 100% under our control. Guys need to get over that. It simply is not true. You are 100% in control of your actions and reactions. There is not some mystical force making you do anything.

You have to take responsibility for your actions, as well as control over them. When you don't do something you know you should do, there is a reason. Until you figure out just what that reason is, you will likely never really change your behaviors.

So, why is it that men usually come on way too strong, which is the opposite of how to attract a woman?

It is because we are always in a rush and lack the discipline to slow down.

Rushing is not how to attract a female and will only make her back off. Demonstrate the self-control and confidence it takes to take things slow and she will be more than happy to go along with you.

Guys trying to understand how to attract a woman need to know that she is not going to have sex with you or date you because you finally push her enough to. She is going to do it when - and if - she is attracted to and turned on by your personality, and feels like she has space to act on those desires.

If you really want to understand how to attract a female, you need to first understand why you cannot stop yourself from coming on too strong. Then, you need to find out what it is that keeps you from doing what you should, which is take it slow and act with confidence and self control.

Figure this out and make the necessary changes. Then, you will finally be on the road to figuring out how to attract a woman.