Insecurity

People hide their insecurity in several ways. The mind is full of self-defense mechanisms - it can be very creative undeniably. Insecurity can turn us into someone we in reality are not. Woman hates a man who is insecure. They hate a man who dies for a woman to get their attention and they hate a man who is insecure with the decisions he makes.

You finally got the girl of your choice. She is smart, beautiful, and very sexy. She is everything that you have ever wanted in a woman. Every time you both go out, you notice all the guys noticing her. In turn, you hold her closely in a protective manner and send foul looks to the gawkers. You watch her every move and feel a hint of insecurity at times when it is not warranted. You constantly call to check her and then count the seconds before she returns your call. You feel enormously paranoid when she goes out with girlfriends or co-workers. You instantaneously feel rage when she looks at another guy, however innocent it may be. She does not let you listen to your music in the car on the way home from your first meet. Do not have a cry how she does not let you listen to your music. Change it back and tell her when she is driving she can choose the music. Be strong and do not show the soft side of you for stupid things.

You feel consumed by your insecurities, directing your energy towards over covetousness and jealousy instead. You try to buy her time and attention by buying her gifts, dinners and taking her away on vacations. You also prefer to spend your time with her at home only and not out in public for fear of her looking at other men. You always use possessive and isolate tactics on her.

You may have had some really bad experiences before regarding loyalty and relationships and you do not want this to happen to you again. You strongly pledge your guarantee that she is the only one in your life. Male insecurity has been proven to be directly connected with a deficiency in the size of the male person. Many guys feel disdain and regularly envy towards other men who are better off than themselves. Having more money means you could most likely buy your girl bigger and better gifts that you think makes you highly desirable and attractive.

All men, merely like women, need to be liked and loved. They want to be respected, adored, and valued. Men want to feel special and important to someone.

You need to take time and do self-assessment. Get new clothes, hairstyle and learn some new things. Get a membership at a gym and start shedding those pounds of your body. More prominently, is the measure of trust and loyalty that you and your girl have for each other. Do not let your insecurities and jealousy cloud your judgment and spoil your relationship. Treat your girl with the extreme respect and start trusting her more.

Michael Teo is an expert on the Human Psychology and Behavior.