5 Steps To Winning Back Ex Girlfriend

Allow me to guess. Your girlfriend just broke up with you, you are lonely, desperate, miserable,hurting, and winning back ex girlfriend is your top priority. I think I can help. If you are committed to winning back ex girlfriend, the following tips will get you going.

1. Relax and remember to breath.

I am saying the world hasn't ended. The earth will continue to spin. I know you are hurting, I get that. But panic must be held at bay. Lots of people start begging, pleading, saying they'll change, texting and calling constantly. This will have the opposite effect, if this is you, stop.

2. Accept responsibility to yourself.

This will not be easy. No one is saying it is all your fault. No one ever is. But, you did have a hand in their decision to leave you. You will apologize for it, but not yet. The first step is designed to give you an idea of how your ex sees things. Acknowledge to yourself and accept your part in the break up. Understand what you do that frustrates them. Winning back ex girlfriend absolutely requires this step.

3. Continue breathing.

You now know life on earth will continue. And you have accepted your role in the break up. Now it is time to start winning back ex girlfriend. Here is how you do this step. Let your ex know about step one and two. Let them know you realize how they weren't being appreciated and were being taken for granted. (News flash, that is why they broke up with you, end of discussion.), apologize for what YOU specifically did, and tell them you agree with the break up. This is where you start breathing again. This is not the time to go further, leave it at those three things, and end the conversation.

This is an emotional jujitsu move. Call it reverse psychology, if you want call it physics, but do it! You pull, they push. Sound like an argument yet? This allows you to pull the same way they are, instead of a battle. This is not trying to make them jealous, that will only infuriate them, not win them back.

4. Resume life.

Fake it if you have to. Do not hole up in your house. Go out with a friend you haven't seen in a while. Make people think you are ok with the break up. Give your ex some room to miss you, avoid contact if you can. If that can't be helped, smile when you see them, act like a happy stranger. Trust me, she is checking up on you, and she will notice your behavior. You need some time before you reunite with your ex,, three weeks to a month should be sufficient. I have another important flash, your ex misses you, give that enough time to work for you.

5. Make contact.

It's show time. This contact is the beginning. Invite them to have coffee or lunch. This is not a date, just a short timed meeting, do not make this an all day or evening affair. Make this simple not complicated so they will agree to meet. At lunch, do not try to rekindle everything, and do not drudge the past. Act like you are having coffee with someone from the past. Do not be serious, keep the conversation light and fun. Now, you are ready to cement yourself back into their mind. Are you ready? Pretend they have something on the side of their mouth. Just make a motion with your finger to your mouth to politely tell them they have something on it. They will instantly grab their napkin, and wipe their mouth. Now you are together again in their mind.

Let me explain. Telling someone with a motion that they have something on their face, would only be done by someone who loves the other person. You have never done it to a stranger have you. This is something husbands and wives do. In her mind, you are together as a loving caring couple from that one simple gesture.

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