How Do I Get Back Together With My Ex Girlfriend?

If you've recently broken up with your girl you have likely asked yourself how to do I get back together with my ex girlfriend? There are many situations and scenarios that can dictate what your approach should be. Let's consider the following example of Paul and Danielle.

Danielle was busy one night so Paul went to a party alone where he started to make out with one of Danielle's friends. Of course it didn't take long for this to get back to her. Danielle had a fit yelling "I never want to see you again" and stormed out.

Paul has been taking this pretty hard. He knows he screwed up. But what can he do? He wonders how to get an ex girlfriend back? The first thing that he needs to do is offer Danielle a sincere apology. He needs to realize what he did wrong, figure out why he did it, decide whether he will ever do it again, and most importantly, communicate all of this honestly to Danielle. Once this is done Paul needs to step back and stop contacting her. He took the first step and now the ball is in Danielle's court.

The best thing he can do now is to wait for Danielle to make the next move. He should not call, email, text, "accidentally" bump into her, etc. Separate and give her space. Danielle will likely contact Paul when she is ready. She may contact him out of anger to exchange their personal belongings. She may miss him and wants to talk. It doesn't matter why she contacts him. This is the opening that Paul is waiting for. He needs to make his move when she contacts him and try to win her back.

As Paul is considering the solution to how do I get back together with my ex girlfriend he needs to realize that he should not bring up the past unless Danielle does. If possible he should focus strictly on the fond memories that they had together. He can mention that he was near a place that they used to go and he thought of her. He can mention how he misses something about her (like her laugh) as long as he doesn't admit that he can't live without her.

Hopefully with this approach Danielle will be more receptive to Paul's words and if she is he can suggest a casual get together. Not a date but getting together for coffee or a walk. This should be only for a 1/2 hour to an hour. No longer. No pressure either, just a casual meeting. Again, focus on fond memories of each other; not what caused the break up. Keep it light.

If Paul can stay on track and focus on the above suggestions then the answer to how do I get back together with my ex girlfriend will become easier to find. You can learn several more powerful, proven and effective techniques that have helped thousands of people solve their relationship problems and win their ex back. Visit us now by clicking here: My Ex Girlfriend

Peter Harris is an author and health care professional and writes frequently about relationships.