Look up a cell phone number – get to know your potential mate

Megan and Steve met at a concert and immediately hit it off. They began dating and before long they were deeply, passionately in love. They just made such a good match – both have suffered from turbulent first marriages and had children. Both were sweet, nurturing people who yearned for a loving relationship with a compatible partner.

Their whirlwind courtship lasted for six months. They began to discuss living together, but issues arose and they decided to cool it for a while; before long, they broke up. For the next six months, Megan’s attempts at dating have remained fruitless. She has missed Steve and decided to call him. She was surprised to find out he had disconnected his land line, and decided to look up his new cell phone number on-line.

She found out a lot more than she’d bargained for. In addition to his address and cell phone number, the reverse cell phone lookup report also offered criminal background information, according to which Steve was a convicted child molester. Megan would have believed this about most anyone but Steve. She spent the next three days in a shocked daze, and then decided to call and confront him. There had to be some kind of mistake!
There wasn’t. Once confronted, Steve didn’t deny it. Ten years earlier, he had molested his ex-wife’s 8-year-old daughter from previous relationship, his son’s sister. Megan tried not to think about inadvertently putting her own children in danger. It wasn’t a comfortable discussion, and they soon said what they knew was their last good-bye.

When asked if she has any advice for all the women looking for their potentials mates, Megan insists without hesitation: investigate before becoming involved! Look up the men’s cell phone numbers if other information is limited, and do a thorough background check on them and all their family members. It works, and you owe it to yourself and your children to know who is getting close.