The Number 1 Way To Get Your Ex Back!

What is the number one thing you can do to get your ex back? I know you want your partner back, but to get them back you have to understand the right mind set you need to be in. This mind set is probably not what you think it is. So pay attention as I try to help you with this problem.

I've been in your exact spot before. And I made all the normal mistakes that someone who wants their ex back can make. I thought I had to show how much I cared. I thought I needed to let my partner know what I was feeling. And the truth is none of that is what works. You have to understand the concept of scarcity if you want them back.

Attraction works on the principal of scarcity. Humans want what they can't have. You see it all around you. Why do you think diamonds are so expensive? If diamonds were common and everyone had one, what do you think their worth would be? Much, much lower than it is now. The same idea works on almost everything. And it can work to your advantage in getting your ex back.

So what is the number one thing you can do to start the process of getting your back?

Don't contact them. Leave them alone. Any contact you have with them is only going to push them away. If you work with the push/pull theory you can begin pulling them back to you by making yourself scarce. You are not in the right frame of mind to attract them back after you have just broken up. You need to leave everything alone for a bit so that your ex can go through the phase of missing you.

If you follow this idea, you can create a natural re-attraction that will start the process of getting your partner back.