Winning Back an Ex-Girlfriend - The Importance of Respect

For whatever the reason, your girlfriend wants out of her relationship with you. Bear in mind that women - be they young or mature - are very emotional. You may think your girlfriend is being melodramatic, over-reacting or oversensitive, but that is the essence of who she is.

You cannot underestimate the importance of honest communication. You need to be honest with both yourself and your girlfriend, if you stand to have any chance of getting her back into your life.

Respect is a prime ingredient of any meaningful relationship – the Mother/ Father - Son relationship is a prime example. If you don't respect somebody – you certainly don't want to have a relationship with that particular somebody.

The word "respect" comes into play within a relationship, especially if the relationship is in conflict.

If you have done something hurtful to cause your girlfriend to leave you – that "something" needs to be addressed both honestly and urgently.

Try sending her a text message from your cell phone. Keep it short and simple – "I am sorry, please forgive me." "I do love you" "I need you in my life" etc. Or, every night send "Goodnight – I love you."

You could send her a bouquet of her favorite flowers, or a single red rose, or a box of chocolates, or both. Do not deliver them "personally" at this point in time. She obviously has a painful issue that she needs to deal with and put into perspective. Send her a couple of text messages that give her a choice, like – "May we meet for coffee?" "May I pick you up from work?" "Can we talk?"

The important thing here is to open up the lines of communication between the two of you. Once you have succeeded in doing that, there is a chance you can resolve the issue that divide you. Be prepared to compromise, because you may both need to do so, if your relationship rift is to be healed.

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