5 Simple Strategies To Save Your Marriage

1. When you think your marriage is going on the blink, SLOW DOWN! Take some time off, maybe a couple of days and focus on what is good in your life. Stand back from the agony of the infidelity or extramarital affair or whatever. When you are immersed in your misery, it's hard to even imagine that life will once again be better.
2. Focus on the parts of your life that give you joy. Visualize and feel yourself moving slowly while happily enjoying the activities of your day that make you smile. This important exercise will help you avoid the impulsive, frantic, flailing and "failing" painful strategies that are only attempts to alleviate the pain of losing him or her. Even though you might not think so right now, there is much more to your life than this current situation.
3. Remember all the good things in your marriage. Start with remembering how you first met, your first date, your first kiss, the butterflies in your stomach. Remember how much you love his or her sense of humor. All of the wonderful feelings can and will come back with a little work.
4. If you can't afford a marriage counselor, get yourself a save my marriage book. These resources have helped save thousands of marriages. After all who knows your marriage better than you. Marriage Counselors are highly paid listeners who you are paying to listen to your marital problems. Get yourself a good save my marriage book and become your own expert. You will save yourself a lot of time, money and energy and you will develop the skills to make your marriage work better than before.
5. Remember who you are. You are worthy and you are important. You are a great gift to this world and to all who know you. Also, remember, "This Too Will Pass".

Lanie Dills Ways To Save Marriage