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Be sure to thank these kind souls. In this day and age, budgets are tighter than ever. Many people have scaled down their weddings. Don't skimp in the wedding attendant gift department. You'll need to show your appreciation to your groomsmen. After all, these guys took time out of their busy lives to be there for you for pre-wedding events and they will certainly do what they need to do on your wedding. Get your groomsman gifts ahead of time so that you are prepared to pass them out either at the bachelor party or during the rehearsal dinner. These are the last times that all the guys will be together before the wedding day itself so be sure to take advantage of it.

Three cheap but cool groomsmen gifts ideas that won't bust your budget are as follows:

1. Glass mugs. You can give 13 oz or 25 ounce glass mugs that are personalized with a fancy wedding crest, a name, initials and/or the wedding date. Everyone can use a mug. This is a satisfying gift to give as you know that it will get good use. It's not going to be tucked away and never looked at again. A mug can be used on a daily basis.

2. Pocket knives. Knives and multitools always make great gifts. Many young guys don't have a garage full of tools yet. That takes years to accumulate. Most find a pocket knife or a Leatherman multitool to be sufficient for minor projects that they come up across. Most knives and multitools range in price from $20 all the way up to $100. You'll definitely find a Leatherman tool, Buck knife, Gerber knife or Victorinox swiss army knife that will suit your budget.

3. Money clips. Money clips fall into that category of traditional groomsman gifts that have stood the test of time. During the wedding day no one wants a big, bulky wallet to lug around. It's not going to look good bulging in your tuxedo pocket. That's why money clips are such a popular choice. And, they are easy on your wallet. A classic money clip can be purchased for as low as $10. You can get silver-plated plain models or get one with your favorite MLB or NFL team logo on it.

Whatever you do, try to come up with how much you are willing or able to spend on each groomsman. Try to stick to that so you don't go over-budget. Check out the internet and you're bound to find some fantastic deals out there. Pick a store that has been around a while and that isn't afraid to show you a picture of their facility. You want an online store you can trust that will be around if you have any questions or concerns.

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An honorable groom is thankful to those around him that have made his wedding day possible. He understands that sometimes it's hard for others to put their own busy lives on hold to help a guy with his wedding. Your groomsmen have answered the call and have stepped up to the plate. For their efforts, it is only proper to thank them.
The best groomsmen gifts are not those that cost you the most. They are personalized gifts. You can take a modest money clip, have engraving added of your groomsman's name or initials and the money clip transcends into a cherished keepsake. When a groomsman receives an engraved gifts, he knows that you had to put forth some effort and thought about what to get him. Then, you had to make sure you found an engraver that you trusted to get the job done in a timely fashion.

Everyone likes to feel fussed over - groomsmen included. They will appreciate the effort you put forth in thanking them. They already put forth effort for you. It's a nice gesture for you to do the same for them. Popular choices for groomsmen gifts include: flasks, beer mugs, baseball bats, pocket knives, pocket watches, multitools, lighters, cigarette cases, business card cases, wallets, travel bags, pub signs, coasters, money clips and cufflinks. Any of these traditional gifts are sure to be a hit. Or, try to come up with something outside-the-box for your groomsmen.

Whatever you decide to give to your groomsmen, give yourself plenty of time to get your groomsman gifts ordered and delivered to you before the bachelor party or rehearsal dinner. Handing out gifts at either the bachelor party or the rehearsal dinner is the most convenient as all the guys are sure to be together at this time. Take advantage of it. Be sure to properly thank your wedding party with gifts. I know it sounds cliché, but it truly is the thought that counts.


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Personalized gifts for important people. Wedding party gifts such as bridesmaid gifts, groomsmen gifts, ring bearer gifts, flower girl gifts and more. Wedding favors, guest books, pillows, baskets, unity candles and more.

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A old-time tradition of weddings is to thank those that go the extra mile for you. You selected your groomsmen because these guys are trusted siblings, childhood friends of longtime acquaitenances that you know are on your side and will do anything you need from them. They are loyal and want you to be happy. They want your wedding to go without a hitch. These guys care about you.

They have been there for you in your life at other events: graduation, parties, school, family gatherings and so forth. Your groomsmen have answered the call to serve in your wedding. They selflessly attend any of your wedding related functions. They have lives too but they put them on hold to do your bidding to make this time in your life a little more special. Thoughtful, gracious people such as this deserve some thanks. Thank them with groomsman gifts.

What better way to thank your dear male wedding attendants than with personalized groomsmen gifts? You're wondering why you should bother with the personalization or engraving of these gifts. It's very easy to spend an hour at the mall, buy five gifts that are all the same and a couple rolls of gift wrap. I suppose that is better than nothing. That would do as a thank you gift.

Personalized gifts are greatly appreciated. When you give someone a personalized gift, it is obvious to them that you spent some time and thought on them. Everyone I know loves it when anyone else thinks about them and shows it with a special gift of thanks. That's what groomsmen gifts are. Sure you could give everyone money clips, but why not give them engraved money clips. Engraving makes the gifts ten times more classy than without it. I love seeing my name or initials engraved on an item. That makes any item fancy and more elegant. It also shows your wedding party attendants that you spent a little time out of your life on them. They've been doing it for you for your wedding. So, give back a little, show them you want to do something extra for them too. It's the least you can do to acknowledge and thank them for their participation in your important wedding.

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The Engagement Ring
The time has come to propose but how are you going to do it? Well, first you need to get the ring and you can find the best engagement rings orange county has to offer right online. In my experience with jewelry I have found that the best selections and prices are when you get them online from those reputable jewelry stores. You may even want to feel the situation out and see if she would rather pick her own engagement ring when the time comes.

Talk About Marriage…Not Too Soon In A Relationship
You want to make sure that you are going to have a successful outcome. Make sure that you both have talked about the possibilities of getting married and that she will actually say yes. Sure, you want the element of surprise but you do not want a "shock and awe" effect.

Be Respectful Of Your New In-Laws
Always talk to the parents. It is just very respectful and is the right way to go about something like this. Sure it is old fashioned but this is something that needs to be done whether you like the parents or not.

Be Romantic and Charming Not Corny
Make the proposal unique to what you like. Propose to her in a setting that you will both like and enjoy. If you enjoy the park together then perhaps a romantic picnic is in order. And when the actually moment arrives get down on that knee…it is just very charming and romantic. Be sure to say something special and romantic before you say the magical words, "will you marry me". Let her know that she is the only one and how much you care for her. You do not want this to be corny but rather memorable.

Don't Propose In Public Or In Front Of People
Now, personally, I find it in poor taste to make something as intimate and special as this to make is public. In my opinion, I think it is a bit tacky to propose at a ballgame on the mega screen…but that is just me. Unless she is a showy sort of person this is something you may want to avoid. I also would not put the ring in food. I had a friend that almost choked on her because it was in a cupcake. Also, I would not propose in front of friends or family because it could be a little awkward for her. Remember, it are what you say and the proposal itself…the presentation is just the packaging.



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Depending on the size of your wedding, you can have anywhere from 1 to 12 groomsmen. Many of those getting married for the second time opt for a modest ceremony or a quick trip to the justice of the peace. Smaller, more intimate, weddings usually have a few groomsmen. A large 300+ wedding can have 8-12 groomsmen. The need for several of these groomsmen to be ushers arises just to get everyone seated in a timely and organized fashion.

It is an honor to be selected as a groomsman. Most grooms pick brothers, college roommates or lifelong friends to stand by their side at the wedding. You want these guys to be your most loyal, trusted friends. They have to have a definite drive to make sure you have the best wedding possible because they care for you and value your friendship. You wouldn't want to pick a new friend or acquaintance for a groomsman because he really won't care enough about your special day. He will most likely view the whole thing as a hassle. But your true friends, and brothers if you have any, will put your happiness as their number one priority.

These special friends deserve a little thanks for their time and effort in your nuptials. They have busy lives too. They will spend many hours offering their advice, tips on staying sane while looking at china patterns, and attending and throwing pre-wedding festivities. Hey, these guys are going to throw your bachelor party, go to tuxedo fittings, go to the rehearsal dinner and fuss over whatever you need them to do for your wedding.

This is where groomsmen gifts come in. Most grooms will spend anywhere from $20 to $100 on groomsman gifts. If you are having a small wedding, you'd spend around $20-40. If you're having a big wedding (200+), you would tend to lean towards the $50+ side for the gifts. It all depends on your budget.

What do you pick for these gifts? Pick something you think your guys are into and you'll be fine. For instance, if your guys love the great outdoors, get them pocket knives. If they are indoor people, they probably won't appreciate a tool or knife. Best to stick with glass mugs or tankards that they can use all the time while at home. Suggestions for gifts include: flasks, money clips, wallets, baseball bats, pub signs, coasters, Leatherman tools, Gerber pocket knives, pocket watches, cufflinks, cigarette cases, Zippo lighters and swiss army knives. All these are cool guy gifts that work as groomsman gifts and any occasion such as birthdays and holidays. Whatever you do, give something to show your friends that you are thankful for their friendship and support during your wedding.


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It really is a lot to ask someone to be a part of your wedding. It takes a big time commitment on their part and they have to put some things in their life on hold so that they can do what you need done for your special day.

Be sure to thank these special friends and relatives. Most brides and grooms do this by giving a modest gift sometime before the wedding. The rehearsal dinner is the most convenient time since everyone is together that is in the wedding. And it is the last time before the wedding that everyone will be together in a relaxed setting. You all get your dinners on order. Then, as you're waiting for dinner or during dessert, the bride and groom can hand out the groomsmen gifts and bridesmaids gifts and say a few words of gratitude to their groomsmen and bridesmaids.

These gifts do not need to be overly expensive. Usually if you spend $20 to $50 each, you're right in the zone and can give out nice gifts that you'll be proud of. For the girls, popular gifts are cosmetic cases, slippers, spa robes, pink liquor flasks, jewelry boxes, earrings, bracelets, necklaces or small purses. For the guys, sports mugs, lighters, flasks, cufflinks, pocket knives, pocket watches, wallets or electronics will do the trick. Most of the time, the bride and groom will select personalized gifts. This allows you to put a little more fuss and care into the gifts. Everyone loves to feel special and personalized gifts will do the trick.

Be sure that you allow yourself at least two months before the wedding to get these gifts ordered online. That way you'll have plenty of time for the engraving or personalization to occur. You'll also allow plenty of time for your order to arrive via UPS or FEDEX. Be sure to have a list of names ready of those groomsmen and bridesmaids. You want to make sure that you have everyone's formal name. A lot of times someone will go by a nickname for their first name, but that's really not even their name. Make sure you have that list together and find out any preferences of what people go by for their names. You want to have the right first name customized on their gift.

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Lisa Gunther is owner of Gunther Gifts Inc., a personalized gifts superstore that has been serving brides and grooms online since 1999. Trust your groomsmen gifts and bridesmaids gifts to the professionals. Beautiful engraving, nice gifts and fast shipping are the norm. We handle every order with extreme care and precision.

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Who says that wedding gifts have to be boring and conventional? There is no doubt that marriage definitely takes work and deciding to spend the rest of your life with someone is a huge decision. But some of the happiest times in one's life come as a result of this union. It is time wedding gifts reflect this.

Fun and Games

At some point, the honeymoon must end and newlyweds will need to find an activity to occupy their time so that the newfound bliss does not turn into wedded boredom. Board games are a great way to pass the time and have fun either as a couple or with a group of friends. To make the experience extra special, personalizing a board game is absolutely the way to go. Lovopoly is a romantic twist on the classic and ever-popular board game Monopoly game. What separates this game from all of the other replica Monopoly games available is that each board space is personalized with special moments from the couple's life together and the center of the board features the picture of the happy couple. With personalized details such as these, the gift is sure to be a hit with the bride and groom to be.

Or perhaps the soon to be wed couple likes to work on jigsaw puzzles. Of course, you are not going to want to get them a 1000-piece kitten in a purse puzzle for a wedding present. Instead, get the couple a heart-shaped or square puzzle that you can personalize with their picture, names, and wedding date. Not only will they get years of romantic enjoyment out of it, but they will always remember your thoughtfulness every time they take the game out of the box.

Another festive and overlooked gift idea is a set of romantic playing cards. No, this does not mean they you hit the convenience store on the way to the ceremony. With a little extra thought and effort, you can create a customized deck of cards with the names of the bride and groom, their wedding date and a cartoon pictures made in their likeness. These fun cards are definitely a winning gift for a wedding of any season.

Fun and Flirty

If your friends share your flirty sense of humor than consider getting them a gift to help them keep the home fires burning long after the rice has been thrown. Consider getting the couple a pillowcase with a fun saying on it, a quote, or even a funny photo that will hold special significance to the couple. While these pillowcases probably won't be used along with the 1200-thread count sheets that the couple requested on their wedding registry, they will be the kind that get used for special occasions.

If you are searching for a fun complement to a more traditional gift, perhaps consider buying the wedding couple a jar of chocolate body paint to go alongside that bathroom towel set. While they may initially be shocked at the gifts or laugh it the disparity between the two, they will secretly love them. You may not ever hear about it, but this gift is sure to be at the top of their favorites list.

As with any gift, always remember the most important element is the thought you put into it, not the price tag. Wedding gifts no longer have to be boring i.e., can openers, ironing boards, and other conventional domestic gifts. Bring a unique and fun wedding gift that shows specific attention to detail concerning the couple and you will surely be giving them something that no one else will. Most of all keep in mind that more than anything, the bride and groom will be pleased that you were able to share their special day with them.




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Lucinda Jones is a freelance writer who writes about family and gift giving, often focusing on a specific kind of gifts such as wedding gifts

Source: http://www.articletrader.com ]]> http://www.articletrader.com/society/marriage/ways-to-save-your-marriage-from-a-break-up-or-worse.html http://www.articletrader.com/society/marriage/ways-to-save-your-marriage-from-a-break-up-or-worse.html Tue, 11 Aug 2009 19:07:41 -0500 What makes a happy marriage? Many different things go in to a happy relationship, but one of the most important things is to being able to talk to each other. I am sure you have heard it before and it's true, talking things out with your partner regularly, with honestly is the best thing you can do for your relationship. Because when you are completely honest with your partner, there are no surprises and as a result less fighting. Even Little lies can add up and come back to hurt you.
Talking things out that bother you at least a few times a week can do your relationship good. Most people won't open up to each other, leaving them unhappy with the relationship. The last thing you want to do is to fall into a rut where everything is the same and you barely talk to each other. To keep your relationship happy you need to talk as much as possible on all kinds of different levels. Come up with ways to spend time together and enjoy each other's company. Doing these simple and fun things together will bring you closer and start to heal the damage that has been done in the past. Whatever has been said or done, you can move on past it and start fresh with a happy relationship.
If you're good for each other, things will work out. By acting confident and grown up, you heighten your chances of a very happy relationship. If you get along pretty well with each other, feel connected and really want to stay together, fix it. It is worth it. There is magic in making up. It is hard to find that special person. When you do find them you need to hang on tight through the good and the not so good. You need to come together and not break up. Why break up when you can make up? Remember too, making up can be a lot of fun!



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In addition, the self-help movement provides all kinds of self-directed therapy from books, articles, workshops, seminars, and support groups that previous generations did not have available. Also, religious leaders are prepared in their seminary training to provide therapeutic resources from pastoral counseling to contacts with secular therapists who can provide help for specific needs.

When seeking couples' therapy no longer carries the social stigma of yesteryear, does it lose some of its power to make a difference? Is it the answer to every problem? Who really needs to seek a therapist and who can have their troubles addressed through less expensive self-help resources?

In an era when we analyze everything to death, couples who have only been together a matter of weeks or months can find themselves inspired to seek therapy. However, bringing that level of intensity to such a young relationship is like treating a scratch with intravenous antibiotics. Friends and family who have solid relationships can be a fine source of information when a romance is young. In any relationship where deep listening occurs, therapeutic effects can take place. Most young romances do not need anything more than this.

If counseling is required in a relationship that is under a year old, this may be a yellow flag that the two individuals are not right for each other. Please note, I said "yellow" flag. It is a cautionary reality for counseling to be required at such a time, not a definite sign that you are not meant for each other.

For many people in various stages of relationships, self-help books, workshops, or small groups can be just the thing to knock the staleness out of a marriage or address more complex problems. Many people have used such things to change their lives. My wife used the title of the self-help best seller, Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway, to change her life! It is possible that something written on a page or uncovered at a workshop can be just the thing to turn your marriage back into a blossoming romance.

Couples' Therapy is best used when there are problems in the relationship that seem insurmountable but before either of you want to bring it to an end. For instance, when love making becomes less frequent, when one's attention begins to stray, when illness blindsides the family, when one of you is afraid he or she is falling out of love, anything that causes undo stress on one or both of you. When it feels insurmountable and before you are ready to throw up your hands and give up, get yourself to a qualified therapist or comparable professional (such as a member of the clergy with an expertise in pastoral counseling) and give your relationship a chance to not only survive but thrive.

Another option to classical therapy but one that is a therapeutic tool and provides genuine and faster results is Systemic Family Constellations. It is a therapeutic approach that has been alive and well in Europe and has swept the United States, Canada, and South America in the last fifteen years. You can research the phrase online and possibly find a practitioner within driving distance of your location.

If there is something in your relationship that doesn't work for you, that hurts; there are numerous ways of finding help for yourself. From a well chosen self-help book to workshops and small groups to the ears and heart of a trusted friend to a couples' therapist, there is a world of help out there here in the 21st century.

As long as you weigh your options and take action before either of you gives up, you cannot make a mistake. Any helpful attention you give your relationship is not only better than none, it will likely lead you to the thing that helps the most. Whether your relationship continues and thrives or is lost, you will know you did everything you could to make a difference for yourself and your family. Even if you wait until one or both of you gives up, giving couples' therapy a chance is worth it when you have so much invested in each other.


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Joseph Malinak is a certified Magi Counselor using The Cards of Destiny and a life coach specializing in relationships. The co-author of Getting Back to Love and Create the Love You Want, you can get a FREE video e-course, 10 Secrets to a Successful Relationship, by visiting him at http://www.JosephMalinak.com

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Here are a few things to consider before you buy your groomsmen gifts:

1. What is your gift budget? Can you spend $20 per guy? $30? $50? Pick a number and only look at gifts at that price. If you decide on $30 per guy, it is a waste of time to look at $50 gifts. You'll probably see something really cool in the $50 price range and then blow your budget. If you are patient, you'll definitely be able to nail something down right at the price you were thinking about in the first place.

2. Will you guys use their gifts? Are your guys fancy? Are they plain? Are they manly men that like to get dirty? Think about the kind of friends you have. Some guys might love those engraved cufflinks you got them whereas others might have preferred a pocket knife. You want to feel like the gift you give is going to see some use.

3. Will you personalize the gifts? Wedding gifts to groomsmen and bridesmaids are usually personalized or customized in some way. The person's name or initials are usually engraved, embroidered or marked on the gift. For instance, if you're going for flasks for the groomsmen, you'll want to have these flasks engraved with names or initials. Engraving makes gifts even more special. Everyone loves to see their own name on something. Indulge them with personalized gifts and you'll create instant keepsakes that they will cherish for years.

4. Has the online store been around? Many internet sites can be run out of someone's home. You'll want to shop at a site that shows a picture of their facility. It's nice to know that you're dealing with professionals and not with part time mom and pop stores.

5. Is there a toll free number and physical address shown on the website? A website should definitely have a toll free number. This is good customer service. Websites that hide their phone number and do not list a physical address should be avoided. What do you do if you need to contact them? You'll be frustrated immediately once you realize they don't post a phone number.

Weddings are a special time in the lives of the bride and groom. Your wedding attendants will do everything they can for you to ensure that you have a great day. Be sure to thank them.


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Lisa Gunther is owner of Gunther Gifts Inc., an engraved gifts superstore located in Carlsbad, CA. Gunther ships quickly anywhere within the U.S. No sales tax to destinations outside CA. Specializes in groomsmen gifts, wedding favors and bridesmaid gifts. Leatherman tools, Gerber knives, lighters, money clips and flasks are very popular engraved gifts for men.

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