8 Little Known Ways to Boost your Libido - In the Bedroom

How you feel toward your partner can have a lot to do with the quantity and quality of sex, it's healthy to explore and expand one's sexuality. There are a few things you can do with your partner to jump start your libido. Follow these tips to build a relationship that's more open to sex.

1. Use Sex toys: Although intimidating for some, sex toys (like vibrators) can make sex more interesting and enticing. You can't teach your lover to please you if you're unsure of how to please yourself. Even if your partner manages to give you an orgasm, you'll get far more pleasure out of it if you can recognize the signs that it's coming and prepare yourself to enjoy every second of it.

2. Watch porn: It does not work for everyone, but porn can help get you in the mood, or help you discover new things.

3. Be more adventurous: Keep the interest alive by being willing to try new things.

4. Get out of the bedroom: Explore new places to have sex, like the kitchen or your neighborhood park to spice things up.

5. Talk dirty: Whether you're in the bedroom or out on a date, don't be shy about talking dirty.

6. Fight boredom: If you're bored with sex, think of new ways you and your partner can connect. Sexy Costumes and role playing are a healthy part of sexuality. Fantasy play can help us feel freer to try new things without inhibition.

7. Leave the lights on: Toss out feelings of shame and embarrassment, and have more exciting sex with the lights on.

8. Explore by touching new regions: Get away from traditional erogenous zones, and touch your partner some place new. A good vibrator can help you to determine the most satisfying angles and sexual positions for pleasurable penetration.