Erotic and Sensual Massage Tips

Erotic and Sensual Massage Tips

Hundreds of thousands of words have been written about erotic massage over the centuries. A true student could spend years perfecting their technique (and what fun years those would be!), but there are some basic tips and tricks which will help those of you new to the practice to make the most of your early endeavors.

• Set the mood – Dim the lights, turn up the heat and put on some soft music. Create a relaxing and sensual atmosphere to enhance relaxation and arousal.

• Use plenty of oil – Using plenty of the appropriate oils will ensure that your massage never rubs the wrong way. Scented massage oil is wonderful for the large areas of the body, while a sexual lubricant or food oil should be the only thing used on genitals and mucous membranes. Warm the oil in a bowl of warm water or between your palms before applying.

• Start off with a light touch and move deeper – As muscles relax, they will be more prepared to accept deeper massage. Beginning with a light touch also helps you and your partner connect with one another. Try things like breathing in time with your partner breaths and take your time to really connect.

• Build erotic energy slowly – Work slowly inwards towards the genitals, a light brushing here or there can build just the right kind of anticipation. Pay close attention to areas surrounding the genitals such as the insides of your partner’s thighs or their lower abdomen. Watch their body closely for signs of arousal such as deep or sharp intakes of breath or a tilt of their hips. Do not overdo the teasing. If your partner shows signs of frustration, it’s time to give a little more.

• Communicate – If you’re not sure, ask and encourage your partner to tell you what feels good. Make frequent eye contact, particularly if this is your first experience with this partner.

A good Erotic massage takes time and practice, but the rewards are ample. With just the right balance of touch and teasing, the orgasms achieved will be like none other. Finish with some light kisses and a warming cover to keep your partner cozy and completely satisfied.

Guido Harris is a writer on relationship and intimacy issues, especially concerning Erotic and Tantric Massage Tips and Advice.
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