How to Start Talking Dirty to Your Lover

If your sex life is in need of a boost and your normal dirty talk just isn't working anymore then it's time to seek out a little help. One of the best ways to boost your dirty talk vocabulary is to seek the help of a 1-900 phone sex operator. Just remember this costs money and can run up a phone bill very quickly!

Contrary to popular belief both men and women enjoy hearing how much their lover pleasures them. They also enjoy hearing how their partner is going to pleasure them.
Phone sex operators are usually very accommodating. Which means if you tell her or him you and your lover are interested in them talking dirty to both of you they will be happy to fulfill your request.

Try as hard as it may be to actually listen and hear what they are saying and remember it so next time you and your lover can repeat it to each other and add your own words and suggestions to go along with it. This method is used by many couples so don't be embarrassed, just look at it as a new experience.

You may even learn a few new words and a few new ways to say those words. Sometimes just changing the way you say something can make a big difference if you are usually quiet and shy then try making your voice a little deeper and sexier when you tell your lover "Don't Stop!" These two simple words could change the whole experience if said in a different tone of voice.

A lot of men and women prefer their dirty talk to include names for their body parts that are not found in any dictionary! This is fine too if you prefer your penis to be called a c**k or your vagina to be called a "pussycat" then that is what you should refer to them as.

Describing what it is you would like to do to your lover or have they do to you is also very effective. For example if your lover was to say to you "I want to run my tongue over every inch of your body, smelling and tasting all your sweetness as I go." A comment like that would at least allow the imagination to start to run wild.

Talking dirty to your lover shouldn't be a chore, and it doesn't have to be. Just have fun with it and enjoy it!

Chris J Roberts writes articles focusing mainly on relationships, love and romance. He recommends The Talk Dirty Guide. Get everything you need to know and will never run out of ideas by visiting How-To-Talk-Dirty-To-Your-Boyfriend.com