Relationships are supposed to be fun

There is a lot of material written about how to keep the spark alive in relationship, and what not to do and what to do in the bedroom and in day to day life. But sometimes it is good to put all this information aside just remember that relations and sex are supposed to be fun.

Do you believe in true love?

There is no better feeling than being in love. Many couples spend too much of their energy fighting and being snooty, and not focusing their attention on the positive things in a relationship. Unfortunately a bad day at work can result in bad moods in the house and taking bad moods on the partner. An argument with a friend can put you in a bad mood and you take it out on your partner. Or perhaps you and your partner have a fight and old issues are dredged up to vent more anger at them. Unfortunately this happens often when couples argue and instead of dealing with the issue at hand, old things from the past are dredged up.

The thing to remember is that you are with your partner for a reason and because you want to be with them. If you vent your frustration on them or take out your bad moods on your partner then that is not fair on them. Relationships are supposed to be fun, lets remember that.

Have you heard of the three types of martial sex? One of these you definitely don't want to end up in. They are house, bedroom and hallway sex. House sex is popular with newlyweds or new couples and they have sex in every room of the house. Its common to use sex toys in this phase, like dildos. After hallway sex comes bedroom sex, and this is when the novelty has worn off and sex is resigned to the bedroom. The third stage is hallway sex, where unfortunately a lot of people end up.

If you find that you are in the third category, the best thing to do is to address the issue with your partner and find ways to get out of this category and put the spark back into your sex life. A good place to start is just being naked together and lots of cuddling. As simple as it sounds it's a great place to start. This will lead to other things you'll work your way back into sex again.

Relationships are worth the effort as they bring a lot of fun and enjoyment to both couples. If you find yourselves in a lull, don't panic, instead address the issue and you'll save your relationship. Often it just needs that little bit extra effort from both partners and that's all it takes.

This article has been written by Suzie Harris. Suzie enjoys sharing her knowledge on relationships and sex and she particularly enjoys writing about sex toys for women, particularly dildos and the rabbit vibrator.