The Principle of Change - Why Letting Go Of Resistance to Change is Crucial To Your Success.

Are you one of those people who want to make a change in their life, yet struggle over and over again, due to your internal resistance to change?

When it comes to changing a situation, whether it is in regards to relationships, health, work, or finances, you must decide if you really desire what you are claiming to want.

You may be saying ‘Yes, I really want to make more money, or yes I want to have a business’. If with time, the results you seek are not manifesting themselves, then there is something blocking you at a subconscious level. You are experiencing resistance to change.

Bringing change effectively is about clearing something internally. Once your energy vibration is raised, you will then experience, and see the desired change.

Have you noticed yet, that human beings resist change because it goes against their programming? Due to the fact that our world is primarily based on fear, our subconscious goal is to create a safe emotional environment for our selves. We humans subconsciously wish to stay in our comfort zone.

When you decide it is time for a life change, the disruption begins internally.

No matter how badly you claim to want the life change, you do not want to change emotionally. Change is uncomfortable.

Are you beginning to see how if someone weighs an extra 20 pounds they know how to handle that emotionally, but they do not know how to handle the emotions of being thinner?

You may know how to handle the emotional side of being broke but you do not know how to handle the emotional changes that come with wealth.

Therefore become aware that you are going against what you are conditioned to do, and that you will need to make the desired change at an emotional level, in order to dramatically increase your ability to bring about the desired change at the physical level.

As you absorb this information and start to bring new thoughts, beliefs, and actions into your life, you will experience some resistance to change.

Ask yourself, "Am I looking to change and have what I desire, or am I looking to stay comfortable?"

When you make the decision to go forward with change, you need to understand that you will be stirring up the fears that lie within you. You cannot escape that element, as it is part of the process.

After all these years, I am beginning to understand the necessity of having the fears brought to the surface. In fact, we actually consciously or unconsciously create situations in our life so that we can learn to face our fears, and work through them. The faster we work through our fears the faster positive things manifest in our life.

The next question to ask yourself is, "Am I ready to deal with these feelings or will I avoid them?"

If you resist the fears, you will revert back emotionally, to where you were, and no permanent desired change will occur.

If you decide to get the result you have been longing for, you will need to experience the feelings the fears bring up. Feeling the uncomfortable emotions will help you set yourself free. You will be required to embrace the feelings and not resist them. That will be your clue that you are moving forward.

Now let's examine a particular change that is desired by many, and its accompanied fear. If you are someone who has a business and you want to see huge monetary success - ask yourself,
"When this business takes off, how will my life change?"

Perhaps, you are worried that there will be more demands on your time. With more money coming into your life, you may have more things to manage or more people asking you for help. You may experience guilt about being well off.

Be assured, your life will be different once you have success. Many do not give thought to the changes that the desired result will bring about and therefore they do not manage the change well as it starts to manifest itself, and they finally revert back to old ways.

You have to be emotionally ready to handle the desired change."

Even if you want the manifestation of the result, there is another part of you that is saying, "I do not know if I really want the consequences of the success." That is the part that is holding you back, the part that is not sure whether it can handle the disruptions.

The fear of success is much more common than the fear of failure.
Sometimes in reality, what you currently have is really what you are wanting. Is that perhaps your situation?

In life, there is no such thing as staying in the same spot. Things, events, circumstances are always changing. Energy always moves and you can't stop it.

Learning what is involved in the change process, and how to deal with the internal resistance to change, will allow you to bring about any desired change, and move in the direction you want.

Ask yourself the following questions as you decide what it is you want to change in your life:

1. Do I really want to change?

2. What can possibly happen if I change this situation? Am I ready to deal with feeling this in my life?

Then get into the feeling that is blocking you.

The reason you have not seen the desired results in your life is because you have not dealt with the resistance that is in the form of a trapped feeling.

To change a particular situation in your life, you must decide and accept that this is something you want to do. As you gain clarity about the direction you want your life to take, you will expand your energy, and in turn this will create discomfort for yourself. Your choice will be to deal with the discomfort, and therefore gain the ability to move through the uneasiness and towards reaching your goal or you will decide that you are not willing to go through the discomfort.

If you choose not to deal with the discomforting emotions, you will continue to experience internal conflict, and be unable to bring about the desired results.

Look inward for your answers and learn to trust yourself. Know that you can choose to get through whatever you fear, That is truly the greatest gift you can give yourself and not only will it help you to let go of resistance to change; it will accelerate your success.

About the Author

Lynette Chartier, Life Style Mentor and Successful Entrepreneur, is helping many become the next success story.